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What does it mean when a girl messages a guy first then not reply to his message after?

I got her message late at night and I did not reply until hours later.... just that I didn't want to be seen as too needy and desperate.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    1. Don't wait that long because girls will get tired of waiting

    2. Her phone (or computer...can't tell what you are using) might have died and she couldn't find a charger or she was too lazy to get hers because you waited so long and she probably thought you were not interested or you did not have your phone/computer

    3. She might have fallen asleep

    Source(s): experienced.
  • 9 years ago

    Calm down, maybe she hasn't checked her phone yet. Or, she's doing the same thing you did to her: waiting so that she doens't seem too desperate.

    Quick suggestion: If a girl txts you, I DO NOT suggest waiting. From our point of view, it's just irritating. If we really like you, we'll be waiting by the phone till you reply, and waiting for a hours will not help/

    good luck!

  • 9 years ago

    Maybe she left her phone because she wasn't getting any responses; or maybe it died, or she lost it, or she just isn't available at the moment. Also it she messaged you late at night and you responded hours later it would have been later at night and she might be sleeping, and forgot to check her phone when she got up. If she messaged you, then she obviously wants to talk, so be patient.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    So it is okay for you to not message her back for hours because you don't want to look desperate but then when she doesn't message you back you panic and post online about what to do? Why not be yourself and when she messages you and you are awake go ahead and message back!!?? No need to play games...obviously if she messaged you she was wanting to speak with you!

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  • 9 years ago

    It means that she wants you to chase her. Just text her about every ten minutes or so. She'll love the attention. If she tells you to stop texting she's just playing hard to get. Just keep texting her about every 5 mins then. She'll love the persistence and she'll like you more for it. Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Shes probably doing the same as you, shes does not wanna seem needy. :P Xxxx

  • SJ <3
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    either

    -Not interested

    -Shy

    -Don't want to seem desperate or needy (like how u felt)

    -Waiting for you to start the convo again

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    she probably was doing the same as you were

  • 9 years ago

    well, maybe she forgot her cellphone and she's somewhere else

  • 9 years ago

    Maybe her service is up!? :-/

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