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Why is it that bad things happen to good people and good things happen to bad people?

This girl ruined my life she knew that I loved her but I was a big joke for her when she got bored she just abandoned me and didn't care about the pain she caused me she started avoiding me all of the sudden without further explanation stopped talking to me making me go crazy.

My best friend talked to her about me and recorded the conversation with her I phone she had hidden in her purse i was so depressed when I heard it, she said she just wanted to have some fun with me and that she thinks is awesome knowing that a guy is suffering for her specially me because she knew i was so in love with her but I'm not on her level so what is the point of taking a guy like me seriously she rather go out with a popular better looking guy.

Can't believe how cold she is and everybody else thinks she is the sweatiest girl on earth, what bother me the most is that she is such a hypocrite she wrote this on her FB status today... its ironic how we ignore those who want us, want those who ignore us, love those who hurt us, and hurt those who love us” she is the one who ignored me the one who actually loved her and went to out with the jerks who just wanted to get in bed with her and she knows it very well.

My life is being miserable ever since this happened and she is doing quite well she has a better job, she has both parents, she goes to a better school, she is got a new boyfriend and people still thinks she is cool...wish life was fair and punish her for what she has done all I want is justice she has never felt an ounce of pain and because of her my life is not the same anymore.

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  • 9 years ago
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    I can completely and entirely understand your pain and you are in my heart in terms of I understand. But you are not to judge her. Everyone judges him or herself. I work with people from all sorts of backround, looks and age and they tell me things about their life no one knows. What I learned is that everyone gets payed back at their own good time what they have done to others and there is no exception to it ever.

    Focus on doing good to others, having understanding yourself for others, helping others, that's all you can do and do not believe her. If she thinks this about you, it does not mean that the next girl thinks the same. Another girl might think you are the best looking guy on the planet. She shows with what she said that she has no love in her heart. A person without love cannot see. Forgive her and move on. Hugs to you and be well soon!

  • 9 years ago

    you can look at this a few ways I like to think of life as story, some of the best story on this earth include great tragedy and unfairness but because of these tragedies and unfairnesses theses story become all the more interesting so in other words you can say that at the end of your life when u look back on this moment it'll be one of the sadnesses that you have over come.

    another way you can look at this is life sucks some times sh*t happens and we get over it and we grow and learn from it and we move on and we are much better people bc or it don't harp over this one stupid girl you will never get on to bigger and better things if u dwell on a girl you THINK you loved find one that you KNOW you can love

  • 9 years ago

    Life isn't fair.. You're going to run into cruel people. The best thing you can do is find other interests and people to deal with. You learned a hard lesson. We all do at one time or another. This too shall pass..don't let it drag you down.

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