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Anonymous asked in Pregnancy & ParentingPregnancy · 9 years ago

URGENT!!!! I just found out a few hours ago I am pregnant and?

the only reason i took the 2 tests was to make sure because I am four days late. I get these cramps in my lower stomach and i've been getting hungary more + tired. My stomach is'nt noticeable at all yet, that is how early I am. My boyfriend is wanting, or atleast trying to talk me into taking the Plan B pill tomorrow afternoon. He says it will help everything and that I should start my period 4-5 days later. For some reason I am finding that hard to believe. We are both not really old enough, or ready to do this. I do not want anything to happen to my baby.but honestly the only thing that scares me and is stressing me out, is trying to figure out how to tell my mom. I am afraid she will.not let me be around my boyfriend anymore and take my phone away. I need help :(

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    Your afraid she will not let you be around your boyfriend and will take your phone away. Sweetie how old are you really? Because if you are under the age of 18 then you are probably too young, You boyfriend obviously doesn't want this child so if you are keeping it you will most likely be a single parent. If you really are older than 18 You have no need to worry about your mothers thoughts on the matter, this is YOUR choice not hers. Terminating the pregnancy is something you cannot undo so i think you need to ask your self these questions:

    1. Do I want a child?

    2. Do I earn enough money to support the child?

    3. Am I willing to do this without a partner?

    4. Do I want to put my life on hold for this child?

    If you live with your mother then really you are not financially ready and she will need to support you, I really don't understand that if you are old enough how she can take your phone away or stop you from seeing your boyfriend though, sit her down and have a one on one talk with her, i really hope you make the right choice, Not just for you but for the baby as well.

  • lady
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Plan b only stops your egg from being fertilized by sperm....since you are getting positive pregnancy tests then the plan b is a waste of your time and money. It's too late. Also, plan b doesn't always work. I know people who still got pregnant after plan b. You ae pregnant: thee is only 3 options. 1.)have baby and keep it. 2.have baby and adopt it out. Or 3) get an abortion. Only you can choose what is best for you. I think planned parenthood can get you information on how to get an abortion without your parents permission so they never get to know about it. There's pills a doctor can give you. It can cause bad cramps but gets rid of the pregnancy. You can call planned parenthood and ask about it. Try to use a payphone though cause your mom will see the number on hr phone bill. They can tell you how to get an abortion. You should also be on the pill or using condoms. It sounds like your parents aren't laying attention to you enough. You should've on the pill if you are dating. Ugh. I'm really sorry that you are going through this. I know its very scary. Good luck.

    Source(s): I urge you to either adopt this child out or get an abortion. The life of a teen mother is HELL....you aren't ready yet.
  • 9 years ago

    When I found out I was pregnant it was an day or so after my 17th birthday, my cycle was 2 weeks late, I was cramping for an week or so and feeling sick, so I took an test and there it was (+ -) ! I was scared to tell my momma just because I thought she would be mad, but she knew I was having sex, she just didn't know when, so I assumed it wouldn't be an suprise, so I told her something was wrong because I had been cramping and my cycle was late, she argued with me, saying it'll come , so I left it at that ! When I told her, she was lost of words and then again happy, just didn't want to show it . Your mom is your best friend, you should be able to tell here everything, because if you don't someone else will . I started to stress also when I found out, thinking - as if I was going to loose my baby and that I wouldn't be able to finish my last year of school and spent time wondering if I was ready . Nothing but stress, but I made it through and gave birth to an healthy 7 pound baby, now going on 10 months and she's an fighter, but I love her and can't ask for nothing better ! Btw that phone want be to important, focus on the baby and you, I promise you'll enjoy motherhood .

    Source(s): Me !
  • 9 years ago

    Honestly, the best thing to do is to make an appointment with your doctor and find out. I wouldn't be too worried about your Mom taking your phone away, that's the least of your problems. Just sit your Mom down and explain to her what you wrote in your question, and find out what she says about it. You will only make things worst if you don't tell your Mom. Yes, she will be mad, but she will understand and be there for you and help you get through this. The worst thing that will happen is you will be pregnant. But it'll be better to tell your Mom right away then to have her find out later.

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  • LisaLu
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Plan B only works 24-48 hours after sex. At this point, it will do nothing. If you want your baby, then keep your baby. Your boyfriend will always be a part of your life now since you have a connection, and your mom cannot stop that, however a phone is the least of your worries. Tell her asap.

  • 9 years ago

    Tell your Mom. I realize that the idea of losing your phone priviliges and being kept from seeing your boyfriend seem drastic - but they really aren't that bad. You are having a baby and you're worried about losing your phone priviliges? Your Mom will find out eventually anyway. She can help you make the best decision for you and your baby. Maybe if she sees that you are being sensible, she will be less inclined to ban the boyfriend.

  • 5 years ago

    first of all of the cat could have been spayed. there is not any way it is going to have been pregnant if the owner is a teenage female who can no longer get it scientific therapy while required. purely a 10 minute walk? Err, i could walk to the vet interior the early hours of the morning if I had a ill puppy. i do no longer think of it concerns what gender you're. Take a taxi. Borrow your mothers and fathers' vehicle?

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    The morning after pill only helps within That 72hour period so find out for sure Tell ur mom she has to deal with Your health she is Your.mother...just let Your mom take u to the doc.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I was in the same position as you i was 15 when fell pregnant and my bf was 17 i was at sydney when i found out with his family. they were all trying to push me and pressure me in to the pill or a termination but i said no, and to this day i have never regretted it, i now have a beautiful 9 month old son, and even though people said i was too young ive done good, i do it all by myself, it gets stressful at times but its all worth it, your mum well thnat was my difficult part i was scared out of my brains but once i told her she was shocked but angry but she was good about it she asked me what i wanted to do and supported me the whole way through it, every girl needs to tell their mum, thats what i think cause no matter what they will always stand by you, dont be afraid just tell her the longer you wait the harder it will be. good luck hunni xoxox

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    plan B will not get rid of the baby it might hurt it but not abort it so do not do that tell you mom and ask for her help if you want out of it my mom was mad at me for 2 days then started coming around now my kids are the best thing that has ever happen to her:)

    Source(s): Proud mommy of 2 at 19
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