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Is this girl interested in me or using me?

-We've known each other for about 2 years, but we haven't been around each other long enough for us to friend zone one another (Mainly due to the fact that we went to high schools in different counties and had our own group of friends).

-Haven't seen her for around 5-6 months. Asked if I had a girlfriend and if I was a virgin when we last hung out 5-6 months ago. Stopped hanging out b/c one day I decided to fake on her b/c I honestly did not have any good plans for hanging out so she got mad and stopped talking to me.

-Texts me out of the blue and I discover we ended up going to the same uni. Wants to buy books with me. Wants me to take the same class as her. She referred to us as "study buddiesssss" in a text after telling her that I got the class (In my mind I'm saying to myself "FML AM I FRIEND-ZONED?!?") The word "buddy" in any context in my book is just devastating to me.

What are your opinions? Have I been friend-zoned?

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  • 9 years ago
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    Nahh, i don't think you have been friend-zoned! She probably just was trying to think of a cute saying to pair you two together (a.k.a. buddies)! Don't give up, you still have hope yet!

  • 9 years ago

    You need to stop thinking so much into this. 'Study buddies' is just a phrase, it doesn't mean anything deeper. Keep hanging out with her and see how she acts around you.

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