i'm almost 14 and it feels like i'll never get a girlfriend?

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i mean everyone has a girlfriend or boyfriend in school around me. there's 2 girls i like but don't think i can get them cause i'm always making noises and saying stuff like spaghetti from you tube poop. i try to stop making noises but i have ADHD and that's kinda hard. i'm afraid to talk to them. i'm not unpopular or anything i mean i have alot of friends. (most of my friends r obnoxious and always getting in trouble like today me and two of my friends threw wet toilet paper at the wall in the bathroom. and we all basically all sit at the same lunch table but lets not get off topic) i mean i'm tryin to stop bein obnoxious and shy. please help.

Charlie · Accepted Answer

hey dude i know the feeling. you dont need to stop being yourself. in fact stay the same, trust me im exactly like you. im pretty damn obnoxious. just stay you. talk to girls, youll find somebody who will love you for you just stay yourself.

Tom · Answer

For me, it was exactly the same at your age. I was very shy and I hated it. I felt like I would never get hooked up etc. Now I am 17 and I changed, it's a change that feels SO natural, and I couldn't imagine anyone would  grow up without making that change. There's no need for a serious relationship at that age. It's just that way. People can start true love from 18 and on I think, when they are way more self-conscious. You are 14, still quite a kid. Just be patient you will see time flies like high hell! :)

Danni · Answer

There is still LOTS of hope for you! :) Just don't do stupid things! Stop making noises and be polite and not weird! Don't throw toilet paper at walls. Don't say random words like poop or spaghetti.(:

Be nice and NORMAL and cool and calm! :D You'll get a girlfriend!

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a 14 year old girl and feel like I'll never get a boyfriend too.  It's basically cause either all guys are douches or obnoxious like you.  HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT THAT MAYBE YOU'RE NOT READY FOR A GIRLFRIEND?!

? · Answer

I'm 16 and never have had a boyfriend. Besides 14 is too young to be having a boyfriend/girlfriend.

Maggie · Answer

You'll be fine. Things will naturally run its course. The second you start appreciating yourself for who you are is the second things will start going your way. The night before my boyfriend of two years asked me out, I had finally accepted that I was happy with everything I was and going to be, no matter what. Good luck!

Nnnn97 · Answer

i'm a 14 year old girl and there are a lot of people who haven't have girlfriends/boyfriends. you said you don't think you could get the girls you like because of the things you say, but i think that the things you say shouldn't matter because if one of them likes you back, they should like you for your personality. don't worry though, you'll have plenty of time to find the right person (:

? · Answer

dont worry. im thirteen too and ive never had a boyfriend. my stepbrother is ADHD and he gets in trouble too. if a girl really likes you she wont want you to change. just wait and the right girl will come along. think about it, what's better: a loveless relationship soon or a good relationship later?

Anonymous · Answer

Don't worry about it. You're only 13 so you have plenty of time to date. Eventually you'll find a girl who will love you for who you are, so don't try to change yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

it will come just wait there is someone out there for everyone ,plus throwing wet toilet paper at a wall is kinda childish and you really shouldnt be dating

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