Am I the only stupid one to have my real photo on the side?

Obviously, you're not alone. Either in having your real picture as your YA avatar or your lack of self esteem. I use a real picture of me taken with an iphone while I was cleaning up after The Eagles performed at a private birthday party a couple of years ago. It's not the best picture, but I liked it better than the cartoony icons a lot of other people use, so I don't think its a big deal.

As to your concerns as to whether you're stupid or not handsome, I doubt that is something you want some of the goofballs on here to respond to. You're obviously not stupid because you spell and punctuate correctly and didn't post your full name. And as a fellow middle aged white guy, I don't feel qualified or even interested on commenting on your appearance, though you should probably not worry so much about it. I know you're kidding, but one of the great things about getting older is you don't have to care so much about things that weren't important in the first place.

You are not stupid at all but only one of the few who are proud enough to post their real photo. Enjoy what you are doing.

No.You are the smart one that Knows how to do it.LOL

i dont think so because i lot of people have their pictures in yahoo answers

no