My grandmother just passed away?

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So here's my situation. Last week I bought concert tickets to go see Styx. A couple days ago, my grandmother got really sick with her cancer so my family and I have spent the last couple days at the hospital by her bed side. Well this morning she passed away. But also, the Styx concert is tonight. Would I be a bad person if I attended the concert even tho the rest of my family is at home grieving? I just have a feeling that my family would think that I didn't love my grandma or something, which is not the case. I am just comfortable with death (my grandma was also really sick for over a year which really helped me prepare for this day).

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Maybe a black man killed her

Laura · Answer

If you feel comfortable about going to the concert. then by all means go. I think grandma would be okay with it. You know u loved her and your are grieving too just like the rest of the family. Go and have an awesome time

Paul · Answer

No you wouldn't be a bad person. You were there while she was in the hospital, thats what matters. So long as the wake or funeral are not today/tonight there is no problem with it. Just tell your parents your going, they'll probably want you to go, it will cheer you up. Im sorry for your loss.

H@F$@ · Answer

I understand how it feels becuz Ive been through the same..
And..I think its ok to cheer urself up!! And if going to the concert makes u feel happy- Go!!
Ur parents and family will understand. 
Do not go without consulting them though...U dont want them to be angry!

hello_vnine · Answer

of course you can still go. you spent money on the tickets and didnt know that she was gonna pass away in time for you to go..your family should understand.

scoutma53 · Answer

No, you are going to cheer yourself up. Or that's what you can tell the family.

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