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Ladies, how would you react....?

If someone whom you've been attracted to for many years, hugged you "hello" and cupped a feel of your body? He states he's been thinking of you a LOT, and you are definitely receiving signals. You've always admired his sense of humour, his looks, his ethics, just about every darned thing about him ............BUT ............he is married to a mutual friend?

Not to worry. I have a strict rule about that sort of thing. Definitely a "NO", but still, DANG! He's sending you so many bloody signals, only an idiot could get it wrong, and the attraction is DEFINITELY mutual. What would you do?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    What a difficult situation! I would keep away from him is much as you can. Do everything you can to keep away those feelings of attractiveness towards him (although I'm sure you're doing that anyway). Do everything you can to figuratively scream "I'm NOT INTERESTED!". When he's sending his signals, ignore them. I'm very sorry for your situation!

  • 9 years ago

    Sorry honey, you know the answer - don't even think about going there. He's married, to a friend no less- you cannot do that. How can you admire his morals when he's doing this. Either keep the flirting harmless or put him in his place. regardless of whether he's attractive or not IT IS WRONG TO DO THAT

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    It sounds like you definitely both have feelings for each other... But think of your friend. Is acting on those feelings worth losing her? Plus, he's taking the first step in cheating on her. Does she deserve to live in oblivion? Personally, I would tell the friend. If I still felt strongly about the man, maybe I would see if pursuing some kind of relationship would be worthwhile.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I would break off al contact with im and tell this mutual friend what sort of douchebag she's married to.

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  • 9 years ago

    This can be explained simply-

    When a woman says "It's nice to meet you" she means:

    I wonder if I should wear something different in case he wants to ask me out

    I hope his mother likes me and doesn't to try interfere.

    I wonder if he's a good dancer.

    I wonder when he's going to ask me out?

    Hopefully he notices my new shoes and sees that my toenails are painted.

    When a man says "It's nice to meet you" he means:

    It's nice to meet you

    Source(s): Don't try to read subtext into what men say- Men don't use subtext
  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    I would step away and then never talk to him again... I don't care how attractive he is; he is married.

  • 9 years ago

    I would break it off

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