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My boyfriend thinks I don't trust him?

I absolutely love him and I know he loves me. we have been together for almost 5 months. we have had our ups and downs but things are fantastic. at least they were until a few days ago. you see my last relationship was something of a nightmare i wouldn't even wish on my worst enemy and because of that i sometimes get paranoid that he will do the same thing to me. i'm human, i get scared sometimes. anyway, i felt i could tell him what was on my mind and when i did, he took it as that i didn't trust him. telling me we don't have to be together if that's how i feel. by the way, every time we have a disagreement or something, he is so quick to jump to a break up and i don't know why. so since that conversation, hes been acting really distant. i have apologized repeatedly but it doesn't seem to get through to him. i realize it was unfair for me to judge him based on my past but i really don't know what to do now. i don't want something like this to come between us and ruin a great relationship. any advice plz

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  • John
    Lv 5
    9 years ago
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    You hurt him, and made him think you don't really want to be with him...you are going to have to find some way to explain to him how you really feel.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    by the way, every time we have a disagreement or something, he is so quick to jump to a break up and i don't know why. ruin a great relationship. So you think this is a great relationship?? I absolutely love him and I know he loves me. He sure doesn't show it.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Hey this is none of your fault. Its ok to be scared,he just should understand u. tell him that u are only scared of losing him and nothing else. hope it ll work out! good luck!

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