How do i ask my mom to be put on birth control?

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I have had sex twice and i HATE the stress of wondering when my period is gonna come(even though we used protection, im just a paranoid type person) My mom always told me that if i want to be put on birth control to just ask, but now that the time has come, im scared on how she will react. HELP!
thank you(:

b · Answer

My mom told me to ask when I wanted to, and when the time came, she freaked out about me having sex!
Then I got a lecture about "staying abstinent isn't that hard, just don't have sex", and I gave her her own lesson about how hard that is to accomplish when you're at a certain age... it was like she forgot!
It's always good to bring up how you don't want her to be a grandparent nine months later, and how you don't want the stress of worrying about whether you're pregnant or not. (been there, done that, quite a few times and it makes you feel like you shouldn't even be having sex)...
I'd stay on it, because my mom tried to let it go and I'd have to keep bringing it up. Just remind her each time about not wanting a baby, she should come around.

Anonymous · Answer

Just Ask. She Shouldn't Get  Mad Because At Least You Want To Be More Careful Unlike Some Girl's Do About It.

Steph · Answer

Just be honest with her and tell her the truth..i know it sounds scary but everything will be ok..plus don't forget your mom was your age once too!!! But remember just because you might start the pill doesn't mean you stop using protection!!

? · Answer

Just ask her - Maybe dont tell her you have had sex (as she doesnt need to know this) just let her know you want to be prepared. I am sure she will appreciate this rather than an unwanted pregnancy!

Good Luck x

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