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Boyfriend watches porn...?

My boyfriend watches porn and it really bothers me. The thing is is that we don't have sex that often any more and its not because of me, I always try to start something with him but he just doesn't seem interested in me anymore and its only been since he started watching porn or should I say since I found out he watches porn... I am 7 months pregnant and I already feel disgusting and then he turns me down constantly...Is it wrong for me to feel inadequate?

Update:

Him watching porn wouldn't bother me if he would have sex with me, I feel as if he is replacing me with other women in the porn now because I am pregnant and I do feel "fat" thanks for making me feel like more of a cow for bringing a child into this world that is something he helped create! I am 21 years old not a child and I'd like to be spoken to like one.

Update 2:

Having sex while pregnant is not unheard of people, and it does not hurt the baby. If it did I would not be wanting to have sex.

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  • 9 years ago
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    I have been with the same woman for 8 years. I watch porn. The only difference between me and your boyfriend is I don't hide it. The porn is nothing. Your mad because he hid it more than anything. Dishonesty will tear your relationship apart. If you and him cannot not be honest with each other you will not succeed. This may not be the best answer, nor the one you want to hear, but you will remember it. I hope you guys can work it out and something as silly as movies will not separate you.

  • 5 years ago

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  • Dont listen to the guys on here. Porn is an addiction. If he only wants to see porn, he may have a problem. Try discussing how you feel with him, without bringing up the subject of porn addiction. If he gets really defensive over it, he may have a problem. Also, some of those porn sites can download viruses and ruin your computer. Internet STDs.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Porn is an addiction. Yes, every guy has seen porn. But that doesn't mean every guy watches porn regularly. He needs to break the habit or you'll never be enough. To be honest, your boyfriend sounds like an ***hole.

    I wouldn't worry about it too much right now, but if he's still ignoring you after you're all healed up, then I would have a good talk with him.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    First off every man I know watches porn -_- dont take it personally. And maybe he just doesnt like the idea of having sex with you while you are pregnant, nothing you can really do about that. Dont worry in a few months he will be humping your brains out... if you have time that is, with a baby around.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Do not listen to these people that are being mean to you about being pregnant and not looking good.

    Let me tell you that real men think there is nothing a beautiful as a pregnant woman.

    ALso it is not good for him to watch porn because it makes men meaner and they get violent.

    I do not know if you are going to get married or not but if I were you if there is somewhere else to go for a time you should get out of there. He might get violent with you and then find out if his family will help you get him off Porn.

    it is not a good scene either for your baby to be around this man who has lust on him and you need to protect the baby and you from harm.

    You also need to consider that the Lord wanted you to know he was in to porn so you would move on. do not let him use you then walk away you get out of there NOW. there are any number of single mother homes that will help you have your baby and not have to starve.

    think about it and then call your family and get help

    Source(s): Camille if you love that baby you need to go back home now
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    First of all, there is absolutely nothing wrong with guys watching porn. Almost every guy does it and it's just a part of our natural sex drives, so nothing to worry about. Second of all, the reason why your boyfriend probably isn't in the mood is because you're pregnant. I personally don't why, but I think that naturally when a guy knows that you're going to have a kid, he stops focusing on making the kid but nurturing the kid. I think everything is fine.

  • You're 7 months pregant and you have a boyfriend, how old are you?

    And no, its a natural pregangcy mood to feel a little inadequate, but seriously, you're pregnant noone but a freak wants to **** a pregnant lady, plus it may hurt the baby.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Have you seen some of the girls in teen porn! HOT AS HELL. I swear regular girls dont even compare its like watching a victoria secret model getting F-ed in the hottest positions. Talk about *****. FLAWLESS FLAWLESS FLAWLESS. Then there's your fat nagging girlfriend asking if her butt looks fat. "Yea B*** it does. lol at least i wish i could say that but i guess when u want to feel the real thing they're good for that.

  • 9 years ago

    Yes you should be worried. Those free porn sites lead to "cam sites" where men sign up and chat with webcam girls. And then there are things like "adultfriendfinder" where people meet up and have sex. Porn is advanced now a days. I would seriously consider talking to him and if he doesn't listen then leave him.

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