Are guys you meet at night clubs safe dating material...?

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So I went to a night club with my friend last Friday and this one guy I danced with started to try to kiss me and I was not diggin' it, so I gave my friend the look to save me and she awkwardly snatched me away from him. Then I danced with this other guy and he whispered to me "Don't worry, I'll protect you." since he knew that guy was bugging me. 
So we all planned to hang out as a "double date" on Friday (tomorrow). but now my friend's club guy has work and can't come and the guy i'm texting is saying that he and I can hang out just one on one instead. I feel kind of uncomfortable and awkward about going out alone with him. And I know nothing about him except that he is a tad older than me, might be celibate, has a decent sense of humor, and has 2 jobs. I am a freshman in college (in a new state away from home) and he graduated last year. SHOULD I MEET WITH HIM TOMORROW? Or does this situation sound sketch…?

Sunflower · Accepted Answer

Yes, I understand your concern, but if you really want to get to know this guy I suggest doing it in the daytime at a public place. Say that you'd like to meet for lunch or coffee. If he insists at someone's house or at night, say you'd feel better talking over coffee or something. If he's a decent guy, he will oblige.

? · Answer

that's all approximately skills son! unfold them out with self belief. It additionally finally leads to good networking, so the greater people you meet the better probability is for you interior the long-term with females. If that's actual your first time although, do no longer assume overnite fulfillment. submit to in strategies...prepare makes acceptable and that is going for something in life. good luck!

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe the sober guys.

Anonymous · Answer

Lay low for a while...then...if you must...do a different club.

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