need help on friendship !!?

No - go ahead - your a good friend

and remember Farsi is an easy language - I hope you will learn it in a weak

Having been in a similar position, I can say with confidence he won't think it's weird. He will appreciate it.

I'm Caucasian, and many years ago I met my boyfriends grandmother for the first time (he's Persian, and she's "old school Persian"). I pulled out all stops because I knew she didn't like me before she had even met me. I learned some basic Farsi, which is laughable at best. The way to her heart as well as the rest of his family, was through their stomachs. I learned how to cook as many Persian dishes as I could, prepare tea properly for his grandmother, and even host a Nowruz (The Zarathushtrian New Year/Persian New Year) party with all of the appropriate items laid out.

I earned a lot of respect when I put so much effort into learning those things. Especially with Ghormeh Sabzi and Tahcheen, I won the whole family over with those dishes!

Having that said, I don't know if you're male or female. If you're female and crushing on him, I highly suggest you take every warning you're given about Persian mothers. After 12 years, I finally ended the relationship because I couldn't tolerate his mom always being in my business, literally bringing single Persian women to holiday parties *I* hosted to fix him up with. I've met some great Persian women, but I'm pretty sure all of the mothers (whether they're nice to you or not), would rather their sons be with Persian women. :)

Anyway, check out Amazon. I got most of my books there. Be warned if you plan to get Rosetta Stone, the one for Farsi is in Arabic script, NOT Roman. So you're basically forced to learn both and learning Arabic script isn't the easiest thing to do. Heck, most Persians I know can't even read it, lol. Maybe it's changed since then. If you'd like to learn about Nowruz, which is coming up in March, there's a wonderful book on Amazon. It's actually for kids, but it's really informative and comes with cookie cutters. It's the best one I found. It's called: Happy Nowruz: Cooking with Children to Celebrate the Persian New Year and it's by Najmieh Batmanglij. I highly recommend her cook books, too. They're very easy to read and understand.

absolutely not! he´ll think you´re so kind to try that.

i´m persian too and even though i know English, i can´t understand some parts of my cousin´s sentences. he was born and raised in america and he dose not know persian.

talk a little slower with him. it helps.

If he is anything like the spanish speakers and the people who use ASL that I know I think he will appreciate your willingness to learn his language so you can talk.

I don't think hell think your weird. I think it's cool how your taking that extra step to communicate with someone, try teaching him your slang as well, I'm sure he will adapt (:

Go ahead God Bless you.. :)