Getting divorced. Wife wants to move 1,000 miles away with kids. Should I complain or not?

Have you considered her keeping your daughter and you keeping your son? I know it isn't the best solution, but you could always meet up several times a year or every other summer you get your daughter and the next she gets your son. I know it isn't the best solution, and I don't know the laws of that state, but my friends parents did that and neither had to pay child support. I know it's not ideal, but it's just a thought. Good luck with everything, I'm sorry it has to be like that. :(

Tell her exactly how you feel about it.

She should know this straight away; it's not fair, they're your kids too. It's also not fair because it would be painful enough for your son and daughter. It's not like you're asking her not to move, but discuss it with her, think of a compromise. You don't have to talk about it in front of the kids. All they should know is that mommy and daddy love them.

Or you can convince her to visit Massachusetts every once in a while, like once a month. Just to see your kids.

Or you yourself can take a break to visit Atlanta every once in a while.

But whatever you do, you have to speak up. Your other alternative is probably never seeing your son in a long time. Hope I helped. :)

She can't just move. They are your children too.

I guess you complain if you love them.

Let it be if you don't. Let it be if you don't mind other men coming in and out of their lives and treating them like trash.

If you really love them, fix the marriage so that they will not suffer. Then when they are safely in college, do whatever you want.

People are so freaking selfish anymore and they don't have a clue what destroys children.

You can make a big deal and complain all you want-its normal. but dont do it in front of the kids. They dont need to see it or hear it. They just need to know that mummy and daddy loves them.

dont let her take your kids away from you.