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Serious question. I am asking, not to be rude, what are some ways to get a girlfriend?

I, the nerd, cannot and have not, had a girlfriend. With wholeheartedness, I am generally the nice guy. Can I have some help? Maybe explain what you did, and how it worked. Any help would be graciously accepted :)

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  • JJ
    Lv 7
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Get a good job and make lots of MONEY because that's the key.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    To girls: Nice = Weak.

    1) Make 3-4 minutes of small talk and be funny. Girls love to laugh.

    2) Tell her you have to go, then Hand her a pen and scrap of paper and tell her to write her number down.

    3) Call her 3-4 days later (Not like all the other guys who rush things).

    4) Make small talk for 1-2 minutes, then ask her out for lunch for 4-5 days ahead. Have the day, time & location already picked out. Then ask "Can you make it?" and shut up. She will either accept or counter-offer a day when she is free. ANY other answer means "No."

    Don't take rejection personally. Dating is a numbers game. A salesman doesn't make the sale to every customer he talks to. But with each new sales call, he learns a little more about the best way to promote the product.

    Don't expect every girl to say yes. Be ready for her to say no. Play it cool, laugh and tell her "OK. But I don't want you getting jealous when you see some other hot girl on my arm." That's it. You're done and you took the "no" answer with class and humor. Next!

  • 9 years ago

    Well I think that everyone is capable of getting a boyfriend/girlfriend. All I ever look for in a guy is humor, kindness, and someone who's just there to listen to me talk about the most stupid or random things. It's the little things, tiny compliments, hi or hello in the hall.. Just start off with being friends with a girl you're interested in and then let the relationship flourish from there!

  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    Step 1: Introduced myself to girl

    Step 2: Talked to girl about interests

    Step 3: Asked her out to lunch

    Step 4: If she accepts, then ask for number at end of lunch

    Step 5: Set up a date

    Step 3 1/2: If she said no than repeat to another girl.

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    Well, I'm sort of like you I guess. I found just saying hi to more girls, and talking to them actually helped. Over the course of two months, the amount of friends that I have that are girls sky-rocketed from 0 to 7. But that's not really a girlfriend. So I can't really help. All I can say is believe in yourself, and have confidence, because if you don't like yourself, how can you expect a girl to like you? Just

  • 9 years ago

    Why do you want a girlfriend? I never had one until I was 27. Just be nice. The right one will seek you out.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    ima a girl what i would want a guy to do for me is ... talk nice to me become friends then ask out !!

  • 9 years ago

    hey well just be yourself the rt gurl will kum one day dont change for a gurl

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