Would you date a pregnant girl?

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I met an amazing girl 3 weeks ago.  She is stunning, intelligent, single, and we have great chemistry.  From the title of this you will know the catch already, she is 19 weeks pregnant and determined to have the baby.  She met up with an old boyfriend in October of last year and they had a one night stand, birth control failed and she became pregnant.  There is no way you can make the call for me, there are too many variables involved, but I would be interested to hear the opinions of others as to how you would react in a similar situation - oh, she is 24 years old.

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Man if you're feeling her and really do like her then go for it. A kid shouldn't make you not want to date a really good girl.

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Anonymous · Answer

maybe for the sex, since you can't get pregnant. if you're a single guy though, dating you would be like gaining an instant family. most guys are not ready for that level of commitment. its actually committing to two people, you and your child. then there is the complication of the real father coming into the picture. now if you meet someone who already has kids or is in a place in life where he wants kids... then you got a shot. personally i think pregnant women are just as attractive, maybe even more so with the larger breasts, so it shouldn't be an issue of looks.

Art · Answer

I would just stay friends with her until after she's had it and at least had some time to get used to being a single mom. If you do date her I'd be really careful. Dating is already complicated enough as is and her being pregnant will only make it more complicated. Also I don't see how you could be with through her pregnancy and birth without starting to feel like the father (or be treated like the father).

Kes · Answer

Well if I was a guy and really into her I would have a hard time, not only because it's a baby in general but also that it's someone else's. A lot would find it hard for it not to be theirs and take the responsibility. And if you wanted to continue your relationship with her it'd be totally your call on whether you could cope with all that.

RachRic.5 · Answer

well if your seriously interested in her than the fact that's she pregnant shouldn't even matter. but you have to think about whether or not you can be there for her ad the child while your with her, cause she will expect it. if you can't then you may want to move on. but if she's as great as you say and you can really see yourself with her then go for it! You both deserve to be happy. best of luck :)

Santana · Answer

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Love · Answer

I think if you feel strongly about her and dont mind help raising a kid which will be time consuming then go for it as a baby shouldn't effect your true feelings! I admire you you sound like a real gent! :)

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John · Answer

If you really like her then there is nothing holding you back, just make sure your ready to have a family

Mircat · Answer

If you are into a relationship and helping her raise a child then why the heck not?

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