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my exboyfriend is lying and telling me hes getting married when hes not? why?

we were always on and off but the last time he came back he tried to kiss me and i looked away and when he asked if i had a bf is didnt repy (but i didnt), then a year past and i went to see him and was so afraid of him hurting me by telling me didnt love me anymore, we were talking then he moved in for a kiss and i did it again he got kinda mad, signaling for me to leave...so i did but felt bad again and called him and said if we could be friends and he said sure but then next day called and said not a good idea to be friends he has a fiance and theyre getting married abd its his true love buti know for sure they broke up because i talk to someone that is best friends with his mom,, and assures they broke up..why is he telling me this, will i ever get over him its been more than 5 years and i still miss him and regret not kissing him sooo bad..its too late now i got married

Update:

what i really want to know is, does he hate me..or does he love me for saying that and just really mad...he doesnt even want to be friends

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  • 9 years ago

    It doesnt matter about him. Quit obsessing. He said it so that you guys could quit doing the back and forth thing. And your married now? So thats a clear indication that you should quit with your ex. Cut off all ties. You have no obligation to him he has no obligation to you thats it. It isnt a good idea for you guys to be friends. You didnt kiss him for a reason so dont think what if. Look in your future and see that you have a husband who loves you. Sure you will always love your ex you were with him for a while but hes your ex for a reason. He wasnt the person you were supposed to be with.and now you married a man so care about him and his needs as he cares for your needs. Even if your ex calls you which im sure he will at some point tell him your happily married and that you never want to talk to him again. That is a good way of getting over him.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    When I left my wife, she would often call to tell me she's engage and will soon be married. I responded the same way every time, congratulations. Only reason I took any of her calls is because we have a child together. Her engagement / wedding calls stopped once she found out I remarried.

  • 9 years ago

    He's your ex. He has no obligation to you. Get over him already. Geez.

    You're married? Wow - your poor husband! You need to get into counseling asap, because your obsession with this EX is way, way out of bounds.

  • 9 years ago

    How about some punctu- friggin- ation?

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  • Mrs.P
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Because he doesn't want a relationship with you.

  • 9 years ago

    when are you going to grow up and stop whining? If he calls, tell him to drop dead.

  • 9 years ago

    Why do you even talk to him?

  • 9 years ago

    Leave him alone!

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    dump him and move on.

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