i had this crushing feeling in my chest why?

It's called heart-break. Sometimes for some unknown reason, when a person experiences sufficient psychological pain from not getting a desired person, it somehow translate to real pain experienced in the chest, primarily near the heart. Kind of weird.

You are start falling for him. It is a wonderfull feelling when is the right situation, but can be a very bad when the situation is not an ideal one.

You have 2 options: decide if you really want him, try to see if he likes you too, and go for it (after he has finished with his gf) or you decide you will let go and prepare yourself to suffer during sometime (I don't know how much time, just time tell you). I am in the situation like you.

Can you just answer my question? Thanks.

Since you like him, you want to be with him and knowing that he is with someone hurts a little bit. This happens alot, but you just need to accept it. You want him to be happy, right? If he is truely happy in his relation then as a friend you need to try and move on and accept that. You can have feelings, but you cant do anything with them because you dont want to be the person to break up your crush's relationship. Good luck!

What your going through is perfectly normal. It will pass over time. My advice would be to find something to occupy yourself and take you mind of the situation. Like hanging out with some of your friends is always a good idea.

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it will hurt, but it will also go away.

you need to get laid