My husband wants to adopt my son from a previous marriage, will this affect his child support obligations?

Once your husband adopts the child, not only do you give up future child support obligations, but very often, you forfeit whatever was owed to you prior to the adoption. This is nearly always the contingency for the biological father to sign off.

If your husband owes child support to someone else, then he needs to apply for a modification of child support due to the additional family member. The courts no longer punish younger children by pretending that they don't exist. The support is then recalculated using the larger family. However, if his obligation substantially goes to the state to pay back welfare costs, the state may choose to not adjust this amount. This is because the states were getting matching funds from the federal government for child support - basically, they blackmail you to pay up but don't demand similar monies from the women.

Child support varies for each stste so I can't say for sure but my understanding is that adoption is not looked at as different from birth from a legal standpoint so if you had a child together and it affected the obligation then him adopting your child would also. But you would have to look into the laws in your state to be sure.

I hope this makes sense.

It depends on the state. I live in WI. My husband was going to adopt my 3 kids but then after we got married a woman he had a one night stand with right brfore we started dateing had him served with paternity papers. Now no matter if he adopts my 3 kids they are not figured into his income as dependents. But the child that the woman had before is figured into hers. So even though we have his child 50%of the time he still pays her support. I don't get support for my 3 at all.

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If ur ex gives up his rights than he isn't considered a father so he doesn't have father rights and he will not be responsible of anything he does not pay child support.

Do what's right for ur child if the dad doesn't want anything to do with ur child and ur ex loves him like his own than have him adopt him who cares about child support ur child is more important than money.

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Federal Child Support Enforcement Handbook for Non-Custodial Parents

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They might realize they need you and come crawling back!

If you do get back together, don't let the same issues that destroyed your relationship crop up again. Have a good, long talk about how you're both going to make it right this time.

If your ex does give up his rights to the husband then you would not receive anymore child support and the husband would be responsible for this child. I hope that helps.. good luck sweetie =)

Of course your ex wants someone else to adopt your son because HE WILL NOT HAVE TO PAY YOU SUPPORT EVER AGAIN. Don't do it!

Yes it will. It will have to be recalculated and should go down. Because he will legally be the father to your son, they will have to take the child in his home into consideration. You got a good man there! DON'T LET HIM GO!!!! GOOD LUCK/