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How to have sex with my girlfriend without hurting her?
Me and my girlfriend are planning on having sex sometime this weekend. We are both virgins and no we aren't 14 or anything we're 21. I just don't have a clue. I know to obvious things. I just need to know how to do it so I don't hurt her? And what I should do about my weight while I'm laying on her? Im not fat. I'm average for my age and I'm just abit taller than he her head is up to my neck/shoulders. So any help?
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- Anonymous9 years agoFavorite Answer
When i had sex the first time the guy was a lot more experienced and he fingered me for ages use lube or Vaseline not vaseline if you are using condoms ...he got me so aroused by kissing me cuddling me at at the same time he used his fingers and got me so wet and turned on ....he had broke me in and then used his ........ and it didn't hurt that bad to be honest just be very gentle as for you laying on her .....omg just let nature take its own course you can stand up she can be on top there are so many positions from behind doggy style .... I would say keep it very light hearted and laugh at yourself make it fun Good Luck
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- BrookeLv 49 years ago
Well, first of all it's going to hurt no matter. what. Make sure to use lube though. And when you're ready to go in, you will have to use a little bit of pressure with your penis, (mutually consenting obviously) because the body's natural reaction is to pull away. It is going to hurt, but it's like ripping a bandaid off. The slower you go, the more it is going to hurt and the longer it is going to hurt. When I had sex the first time I was having a really hard time, but the guy just shoved it in there and it was much easier that way. And you won't be "laying on her". Missionary position is best for a girl who is a virgin. That will make it easier for you to "get in there" And height will not make a difference when it comes to sex. The only thing you have a align is, well, you know.
And since you guys are both virgins you probably don't know, when you're having sex it is impossible to control your gas so if it happens don't let it ruin anything. Just disregard it and keep on going.
- Anonymous9 years ago
You know.. if she's a virgin well there's no way in hell ur not gonna hurt her.... cuz when it goes in it will hurt u know.. well another thing.. u don't know anything right?? well just GO WITH THE FLOW!! JUST HAVE SEX AND GO TO THE DEPTHS OF THE PLEASURE.. don't be all stupid and stop worrying u know...
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- 9 years ago
It's going to hurt whether or not she likes it. It's her *first time*. Lube it up. If you dont want to put all your weight on her put each arms on each side of her and hold yourself, or you can just do it from the side of the bed.
- Anonymous7 years ago
squish the boobs everyone loves that then take ur finger then make sure u do it gently but finger her make sure you thwen lick the vagina to get her aroused....when i first had sex my vagina started tingling when the man licked it it works every time this doesnt hurt at all
however when they put the dick in there it REALLY hurt me however there is a lovely sensation.
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- Anonymous9 years ago
it wont hurt as much if you use lube and lots of it.and dont worry about weight its not gona be as big of an issue as you think.dont think too much about it okay your gona do fine. and remember sex is gona hurt for her the first time its inevitable
- GOLDMANLv 49 years ago
are you serious?? you never taken a sex ed class in school yet?? well, assuming no, and you're both definitely ready for sex, just take things very slowly and relax. also, make sure you practice safe sex now also. either she on the pill or some other effective form of contraceptive or you on the condom. also, have some good lubrication, jelly or oil handy to lube up her private area as well as your rod. this helps with the pain aspect and makes entry smoother and easier when the time does finally arrive. before this, however, engage in tons of happy and fun foreplay. massage her body all over. then her breast, inner thighs, then her love box with your fingers, even your mouth, all while you tell her to just relax and take a deep breathe! then, when it's your time, have her give you a nice relaxing BJ until all your angels begin singing to you. if you get this far, that's actually enough. have fun now! :)