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Please Help, I Need Advice?
This may be kinda long but please answer.
So i've known this guy for about 8 months, but just as friends. people kept telling me this guy liked me but I didn't believe them because I really liked him and didn't think he would like me back. Fast forward to now.
We went out on a date a few weeks ago to the movies and lunch, we had a great time and he asked if he could kiss me, so I said yes. he dropped me home and texted me about 30 minutes later saying he had had a great time and he would see me on the Friday (we went out on the Wednesday) at karate. while we are at karate he asks me if I am free the next week and I say yes but we didn't make any firm plans. anyway, he texts me on the Sunday to ask if I am free on the Monday to go to Wet n Wild water park. we kiss, hold hands, he walks with his arm around me, etc. again we have a great time, and this time I text him first to say thanks for the day, and he says he really enjoyed it too. So on the way home he asks if I am free on the Wednesday, but I wasn't so we made plans for the Friday...
Heres where I get confused: We go to the movies again and we kiss and hug, then while the movie is on he starts touching my boobs, I liked it so I didn't ask him to stop, and he kept asking me if it was okay that he was doing it and i'd say yes. then he starts running his hand between my legs on top of my clothes so I was okay with that, then a little while later he puts his hand down my pants and starts rubbing my clit, at this point I was a little uncomfortable so I asked him to stop which he did straight away, asking me if I was alright and that he was sorry. I said it was okay and we just keep hugging and kissing, when the movie ended we went for lunch and then he starts driving me home. on the way home I ask him where we were (between us) and he says he really likes me and wants to be more than friends, which is great because so do I. so I ask him if we are bf and gf and he said he wasn't ready for that and he didn't want to hurt me.
Later I texted him saying sorry for making him uncomfortable asking what was between us and he replied saying he just wants to make sure things will work out between us first.
I felt a bit upset that he had gone so far (with touching and stuff) and then says he is not ready for bf and gf.
What do you guys think, what should I say or do. Please help me :(
2 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
it's quite hard to say because in a way he is been respectful(he stop when you ask him to do so/ also he asked for a kiss) but then again it seems like he just wants to take advantage by touching you.
I say is better if he gives you a title as a gf... but he could have also been a relationship where he got hurt and is afraid of trusting and starting a new relationship.
This is up to you, if you want him to take you seriously don't let him touch you not even your breast. if he then stops been interested then he only wants sex. but if he keeps pursuing you then he really likes you.
So do you wanna be a toy or his GIRLFRIEND???
- 9 years ago
Don't let him take it any further with you because he could just be using you, see how things go overtime he might ask you to be his gf soon :)