Kim Beasley

Hi guys

Girls: how would you feel if your boyfriend played with another girls hair when your sitting right next to him? And if they did, how would you react?

Guys: would you play with another girls hair when your girlfriends sitting next to you?

Ok, to make a long story short, I was home-schooled and was pretty much isolated so never made any friends. Now to the present:

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, he's great. He tells me that he thinks I'm beautiful all the time, tells me how much he loves me and wants me, etc.

The problem is I'm so insecure all the time no matter what! When we first got together I didn't really think much of whether the relatioship would last or not, it either would or wouldn't. But as times gone past I've started getting ridiculously insecure & jealous if he even mentions another girl (for example: a few girls grom uni had invited him to come over and play board games and chill out, I started giving him the silent treatment and then when he asked what was wrong I exploded at him, even though he had asked if I wanted to go with him!!) Another girl I knew he had made out with before we got together sent him a message on facebook saying she missed him and I burst into tears! A few months ago I even checked the messages on his phone (which he found out that I did) and even then basically said I could check it whenever I wanted, he even gave me his facebook password! He trusts me completely with all these things and he has never left any doubt in my mind that he only wants me. And yet I still can't seem to get over it and it's starting to become a daily argument. He say's it makes him feel like I don't trust him and that I think he's gonna run off or jump into bed with the first girl that comes along. I've also been dx with a chronic illness not long after we got together and he has been there for all the really hard times. To me it's like why would he want me when I'm sick most of the time?

My main question is how to overcome insecurity?

Especially when your partner never gives you any reason to doubt?

Thanks in advance

Ok, to make a long story short, I was home-schooled and was pretty much isolated so never made any friends. Now to the present:

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, he's great. He tells me that he thinks I'm beautiful all the time, tells me how much he loves me and wants me, etc.

The problem is I'm so insecure all the time no matter what! When we first got together I didn't really think much of whether the relatioship would last or not, it either would or wouldn't. But as times gone past I've started getting ridiculously insecure & jealous if he even mentions another girl (for example: a few girls grom uni had invited him to come over and play board games and chill out, I started giving him the silent treatment and then when he asked what was wrong I exploded at him, even though he had asked if I wanted to go with him!!) Another girl I knew he had made out with before we got together sent him a message on facebook saying she missed him and I burst into tears! A few months ago I even checked the messages on his phone (which he found out that I did) and even then basically said I could check it whenever I wanted, he even gave me his facebook password! He trusts me completely with all these things and he has never left any doubt in my mind that he only wants me. And yet I still can't seem to get over it and it's starting to become a daily argument. He say's it makes him feel like I don't trust him and that I think he's gonna run off or jump into bed with the first girl that comes along. I've also been dx with a chronic illness not long after we got together and he has been there for all the really hard times. To me it's like why would he want me when I'm sick most of the time?

My main question is how to overcome insecurity?

Especially when your partner never gives you any reason to doubt?

Thanks in advance

Hey Guys

My brother is going for his driving test to go from Learner to P-plates, and he was wondering what the test involves? e.g. do they have to do parallel parking, reversing, etc.

We are in Australia by the way, just in case its different between countries.

Thanks in advance! :)

Hey Everyone

I was just wonderng what the use of pens are in a veternary practice??

Any help would be appreciated :)

Thanks

Hi Everyone

I was just wondering what the use of cages in a veterinary practice is?

If anyone could help, I'd greatly appreciate it.

Thanks :)

Hi Guys

So here's my problem.

My father is very controlling, I've never been to school (because my dad didn't want me to, so I was homeschooled), I'm not allowed to get a job, I'm not allowed to drive, my dad hates the fact that I have a boyfriend (In the two months my bf and I have been going out he hasn't even said 1 word to him) and he gets into arguments with me and my mum about me having a boyfriend. I feel very stressed all the time because of the tension in the house and I feel like I can't take it much longer. I have enough money to support myself for about 2 or 3 months, but if I moved out getting a job would be the first thing I would do. And because I'm not allowed out I only have my bf and 1 other friend who I only get to see once a week, I see my bf about 3 or 4 times a week but I have to invite him over when my dads at work so he doesn't know (my mum knows though), my mum and I are really close and we talk about everything, so I told her how I feel and she agreed with me that I would probably never have a normal life until I moved out.

What do I do?

And if my boyfriend would want me to move in with him would it be ok cos we've only been going out for two months?

And please don't say to try and talk to my dad, I have tried several times and each time he just gets angry and starts shouting or telling me that I have to do what he wants until I'm 18 (which is not true as I have checked and I can legally move out of home now), and then walks off. So trying to talk to him is out of the question.

And by the way I'm 16 (17 in three weeks).

Hi Everyone

Ok, here goes. So my boyfriend has fingered me about twice before, he always asks me what I want him to do, a few nights ago we were laying on my bed and he started fingering me and when he stopped he had blood on his fingers and on my thighs. He kept apologising, telling me he was so sorry, etc. and I kept telling him I was fine (which I was). Anyway, he came over again today, and I gave him a handjob for the first time (it was the first time I had ever given a handjob) and again he kept asking what I wanted him to do for me, but there's a problem...

I have never been able to orgasm, i've tried touching myself all different ways but nothing feels very good, and even when it does feel good after a minute or two it gets to sensitive to continue. When he left earlier he seemed kinda annoyed with me.

What should I do or say? I know he just wants to make me feel good but I feel kinda embarrassed about telling him that i've never been able to orgasm.

If you have any questions just post and I will reply as soon as I can. Thank You

Hi Everyone

Ok, here goes. So my boyfriend has fingered me about twice before, he always asks me what I want him to do, a few nights ago we were laying on my bed and he started fingering me and when he stopped he had blood on his fingers and on my thighs. He kept apologising, telling me he was so sorry, etc. and I kept telling him I was fine (which I was). Anyway, he came over again today, and I gave him a handjob for the first time (it was the first time I had ever given a handjob) and again he kept asking what I wanted him to do for me, but there's a problem...

I have never been able to orgasm, i've tried touching myself all different ways but nothing feels very good, and even when it does feel good after a minute or two it gets to sensitive to continue. When he left earlier he seemed kinda annoyed with me.

What should I do or say? I know he just wants to make me feel good but I feel kinda embarrassed about telling him that i've never been able to orgasm.

Hey Guys

I have been on the Yaz birth control for about 8 months and my doctor changed me to Trifeme. The reason my doctor changed me is because I get really bad stomach pains all through the month, so I have been on about 3 different birth controls to try and stop the pains. Anyway, I started the Trifeme about 9 days ago and the last 7 days I have had my period (they usually only last between 2-4 days) even though I skipped the sugar tablets. The first couple of days it was really light but the last few days it has gotten heavier. Is this normal? I have never had any problems changing birth controls before, i'm just a little worried. I'm 16 if it helps and my periods have always been regular from the very start.

Any help would be appreciated :) Thanks in advance.

This may be kinda long but please answer.

So i've known this guy for about 8 months, but just as friends. people kept telling me this guy liked me but I didn't believe them because I really liked him and didn't think he would like me back. Fast forward to now.

We went out on a date a few weeks ago to the movies and lunch, we had a great time and he asked if he could kiss me, so I said yes. he dropped me home and texted me about 30 minutes later saying he had had a great time and he would see me on the Friday (we went out on the Wednesday) at karate. while we are at karate he asks me if I am free the next week and I say yes but we didn't make any firm plans. anyway, he texts me on the Sunday to ask if I am free on the Monday to go to Wet n Wild water park. we kiss, hold hands, he walks with his arm around me, etc. again we have a great time, and this time I text him first to say thanks for the day, and he says he really enjoyed it too. So on the way home he asks if I am free on the Wednesday, but I wasn't so we made plans for the Friday...

Heres where I get confused: We go to the movies again and we kiss and hug, then while the movie is on he starts touching my boobs, I liked it so I didn't ask him to stop, and he kept asking me if it was okay that he was doing it and i'd say yes. then he starts running his hand between my legs on top of my clothes so I was okay with that, then a little while later he puts his hand down my pants and starts rubbing my clit, at this point I was a little uncomfortable so I asked him to stop which he did straight away, asking me if I was alright and that he was sorry. I said it was okay and we just keep hugging and kissing, when the movie ended we went for lunch and then he starts driving me home. on the way home I ask him where we were (between us) and he says he really likes me and wants to be more than friends, which is great because so do I. so I ask him if we are bf and gf and he said he wasn't ready for that and he didn't want to hurt me.

Later I texted him saying sorry for making him uncomfortable asking what was between us and he replied saying he just wants to make sure things will work out between us first.

I felt a bit upset that he had gone so far (with touching and stuff) and then says he is not ready for bf and gf.

What do you guys think, what should I say or do. Please help me :(

This may be kinda long but please answer.

So i've known this guy for about 8 months, but just as friends. people kept telling me this guy liked me but I didn't believe them because I really liked him and didn't think he would like me back. Fast forward to now.

We went out on a date a few weeks ago to the movies and lunch, we had a great time and he asked if he could kiss me, so I said yes. he dropped me home and texted me about 30 minutes later saying he had had a great time and he would see me on the Friday (we went out on the Wednesday) at karate. while we are at karate he asks me if I am free the next week and I say yes but we didn't make any firm plans. anyway, he texts me on the Sunday to ask if I am free on the Monday to go to Wet n Wild water park. we kiss, hold hands, he walks with his arm around me, etc. again we have a great time, and this time I text him first to say thanks for the day, and he says he really enjoyed it too. So on the way home he asks if I am free on the Wednesday, but I wasn't so we made plans for the Friday...

Heres where I get confused: We go to the movies again and we kiss and hug, then while the movie is on he starts touching my boobs, I liked it so I didn't ask him to stop, and he kept asking me if it was okay that he was doing it and i'd say yes. then he starts running his hand between my legs on top of my clothes so I was okay with that, then a little while later he puts his hand down my pants and starts rubbing my clit, at this point I was a little uncomfortable so I asked him to stop which he did straight away, asking me if I was alright and that he was sorry. I said it was okay and we just keep hugging and kissing, when the movie ended we went for lunch and then he starts driving me home. on the way home I ask him where we were (between us) and he says he really likes me and wants to be more than friends, which is great because so do I. so I ask him if we are bf and gf and he said he wasn't ready for that and he didn't want to hurt me.

Later I texted him saying sorry for making him uncomfortable asking what was between us and he replied saying he just wants to make sure things will work out between us first.

I felt a bit upset that he had gone so far (with touching and stuff) and then says he is not ready for bf and gf.

What do you guys think, what should I say or do. Please help me :(

Hey everyone!

I have a date tomorrow and I don't know what to wear! we are going to the movies and then maybe lunch. the weather is fairly warm if that helps.

I had a couple of ideas:

pale blue skinny jeans or dark blue jeggings or denim shorts.

dark grey shirt or dark green shirt.

white keds or flats.

let me know what you think and what you would wear, any help is appreciated :)

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Hi

I was just wondering if these are symptoms of endometriosis?

Tiredness

Loose stools

Really bad stomach pains that aren't relieved by painkillers or heat packs

My doctor has put me on 4 different pills to try and stop the pain but they don't work, he sent me for an ultrasound that came back fine and he thinks it's just hormonal but shouldn't the painkillers work?

If it's any help I'm 16yo

Thanks for any help :)

Hi

I'm 16 year old, 5ft girl and since the start of October I have lost some weight, I was at 53.6 Kilo's and am know at 48.2 and still losing. I was just wondering what could cause this?

Hey!

my brother is turning 18 in January and I was going to plan a surprise paintball party, I am going to invite a few people from our karate class but I don't know how to tell them they would have to pay for themselves, I don't have the money to pay for them but I don't want to be rude, this is my brothers first surprise party so I really want these people to come, so how could I word it in the invitations?

Thanks for any help :)

Explain how you might expect the behaviour of different types of domestic animals to be different in a natural or feral situation to in a domestic situation.

Any help appreciated :)

Explain how you might expect the behaviour of different types of domestic animals to be different in a natural or feral situation to in a domestic situation.

Any help appreciated :)

Hey!

I was just wondering how long it took you if you signed up for the forum on her official website, I put in all the info and it came up processing data but 35 minutes later it still just says processing data. What should I do?

Any help appreciated :)