Boyfriend problem, please help?

First, if you're getting overly sensitive with stimulation, change the form or location of stimulation. What you may not know is the part of your clitoris you can see is only part of it. Stimulation to the area around your clitoris (without direct contact) or pressure and stimulation to your labia majora might help you along a bit...

Doing it without having an orgasm as a goal might also be a good idea (and result in an orgasm) as well. A good time to try might be when you first wake up in the morning, because of how the human body does some things in sleep.

Just saying...

Second, the boyfriend issue, lying and faking it is not a particularly good idea because it tends to set up a bad relationship dynamic. Then again, 19 year old guys are not typically known for patience and understanding female sexual anatomy anyway. Additionally, if he's been on a steady diet of porn, he's probably going to be confused anyway.

Additionally, telling him you haven't/can't/etc. might also have consequences because some men will take that as a challenge...

That said, consider telling him. Then, consider putting him to work helping you. If he's willing and he'll follow the limits you put on what sexual activities, he might actually have a slightly better chance.

Good luck!

Lots of girls have problems learning what makes them orgasm. You're normal. If your boyfriend was noted he obviously needs to be more patient. All I can tell you is to keep practicing. And a lot of times, if you can push through that "too sensitive" feeling you will have an orgasm.

From how you are talking I think your like 14. I am going to point out that honestly you should be taking your time and moving slow not jumping into s-hit because thats how bad things happen. My solution to you just tell him your not ready because clearly your body isnt finished growing and if it is too "sensitive" for you to orgasm you should slow down and wait till its not.

I would also like to point out that you should learn how to pleasure yourself and give yourself an orgasm so you know what you like and dont like because with a guy specially if he is in his teens he has not a clue how to please a girl and will probably end up hurting you. I also have to point out if you havent had sex its going to hurt anyways so just take it slow and figure yourself out before you let him figure you out.

If he is so obliging, ask him if its ok to use toys to help with your situation. Go online and get yourself a nice little something.

Some girls have that problem and some boys are too premature. Both of you need to give yourself more time to explore and mature.

You know why he's annoyed?Handjobs SUCK.