Boyfriend question, please help?

I think the blood was your hymen breaking. The EXACT same thing happened to me, except the guy was an idiot and it ended up being me apologising and rumours spread that it was my period (it really wasn't!) So yeah, it was my hymen because I didn't bleed again when I lost my virginity.

Having an orgasm takes time, for me to have an orgasm (by myself) can take about 15 or 20 minutes! And I've only ever had one orgasm with a guy, and that was because he went down on me for about half an hour! And I've been sexually active for two years!

Oral sex is the best bet at orgasm in my opinion, but he has to be prepared to do it for a while and accept that girls don't always orgasm, so he can't blame himself if you don't orgasm the first time or every time! Most women don't, and some don't at all!

When it comes to having an orgasm, the trick is CLITORUS. Rub the hood of your clitorus, slightly higher than where you said you felt sensitivity, try different pressures and moving your finger up and down, or in circles, there's loads you can do to your clit which feels amazing! As it starts feeling better the more you do it. Increase speed and try pressing harder, that usually works for me! Another thing you could try (this has never worked for me but it has for some of my friends) is only rubbing your G-spot.the G-spot it about 3 inches up, and if you put one or two fingers up there you should feel a rough patch on your top vagina wall, feels a bit like the roof of your mouth. You need to rub that pretty hard to feel pleasure (don't be afraid to!). When I know I'm about to orgasm, I continue rubbing my clit with one hand and with the other hand I insert two fingers and rub my G-spot. Brilliant orgasm every time!! But yeah, for me I need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, there's no chance me having one without my clit being touched or licked!!

Hope this was helpful! :)

the blood was your hymen breaking which is totally normal and it happens to every woman when she first becomes sexually active. just be honest with him and let him know it may take some work to get you to orgasm for the first time since you are not sure what you like yet. you can't orgasm unless you are completely relaxed. get a vibrator, play around, do some reading on the subject. if he's willing, oral is actually more effective than fingers usually. good luck.

Get some lubricant such as one of the durex range or ky jelly and use some f that, let him caress your labia and clitoris gently in a circular motion and when you start to get aroused suggest that he gently inserts on of his fingers in to your vagina rubbing the Front wall of the vagina about two inches he will feel your g-spot ask him t caress this gently with his fingers alternating with caressing your labia and clitoris. This I am sure will lead you to having an orgasm but t might take twenty minutes but yu will enjoy it, while he is doing that to you caress penis gently but delay in making him ejaculate until you have climaxed