Do teens value falling in love any more or is it all about physical sex.?

Teens unfortunately are being so heavily influenced by tv, and celebrities that its ridiculous. I feel for this generation of teens. Its cool to drink, have sex, and thats about it....If you are a strong minded person, you dont let what others do interfere with how you want to live your life...

They [kids/teens] are not emotionally or physically prepared for sexual/intimate relations.

Because the world is so over-saturated with sex and promiscuity, it is corrupting kids minds, causing them to become interested in sexual behavior waaayyy too young and then because kids are naturally careless, they act on what they see (monkey see, monkey do) because of the [lack of] parenting and encouragement (a.k.a. pressure, misguidance) they get from media/internet, friends and school (saying practice safe sex while handing out contraceptives when they should be teaching abstinence and self confidence - non-religiously of course).

When they are this age, they are not doing it for love, they don't know what love is. They are doing it because they are desperate to fit in and be cool. There is no such thing as "cool". And it is unfortunate but true, girls think that the only way they can stay in love is if they give up their innocence and purity, and guys take advantage of that.

No longer does anyone have any moral, respect or value, not even for their own body. Sex and virginity no longer means anything nor is it a "special" moment that two people share - it's now a fad that everyone has to do to fit in.

I am really sick of people like you claiming that all young people are going out and having sex with everything that moves. Just because that is the norm in some countries doesn't mean we ALL are like that. And besides, there doesn't have to be meaning behind sex for someone to enjoy it. It really is none of your business whether someone is having sex out of love or out of recreation because believe it or not sex has three functions; 1. reproduction 2. recreation and 3. to express love. People have sex for all of the above reasons and there's nothing wrong with that.

Well i think this generation is just more sexual. There are girls at my school who have sex with everyone. And have no problem admitting it. And a lot of them also seem to think that "love" is just a distraction.

But i mean we still fall in love. I'm in love with my girlfriend. I know she is in love with me. And i do see a lot of good couples around my school. I just think now a days people don't try so hard to fall in love. Or be with only one person. Because a lot of kids at my school at least see relationships as a waste of time.

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I value falling in love. My girlfriend and i are both 16 and we have been dating for three years. We haven't had sex yet because we think we are too young. We are still kids ourselves and don't want to risk having a child just because "sex is cool". I love and respect my girlfriend way too much to just use her as an object for sex. I don't think we need to have sex to prove we are in love.

That depends on the teen you talk to, we aren't all the same. I know I value being in love and its definitely not about sex to me.

yeah most teens now and days care mostly about sex, especially guys. but not all teens are like that. they're plenty of teens who just want a relationship and don't care abiut sex at all! but they are influenced and it does seem like its all about sex these days.

Yes, I love having sex with my boyfriend but I can do without it, all I really want is for us to spend time together.

I always valued it. I didn't even have sex until I was married. It's more special then. There are far better things to worry about in life than sex...