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My friend behaving strangely?
My friend and I used to date, we had been friends before, tried it, didn't work, so we went back to being friends. We have known each other for a good few years. We have been communicating a lot up till late last year. He has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend, both of whom know we are friends still, so there is no problem, bar the fact that he seems to be slowly drifting away from our friendship. He expects me to tell him everything that is going on in my life, but I get so little back from him about his.
Recently on one of the many social networks he and me use, he has liked other peoples pages bar mine, even a mutal friends page he has liked. He was offline on chat and then his name disappeared off the chat listings, even though he was offline. I don't understand this. Anyways, he does message me on twitter, in a pm that he is looking forward to my next project, yet he won't like my page about it. Which leaves me thinking, if he is looking forward to it, why the hell can't he like the page for it?! I like his pages, and my bf knows this and its not a problem. Oh he likes other things by me, but not my project, complete strangers like it, so whats stopping him then?
We have no past issues and have been chatting a lot up till recently, I have left him a small message as its been a while since we communicated. If he is busy in his life I get that, but so am I and yet I can make time for friends. It is unlike him to be this way,
Adivce please
Genuine replies only please
Thanks
4 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
First of all it is not your problem, u seem like a good friend
perhaps his girlfriend did not like the close friendship you both have and has asked hin 2 stop Contactibg u .As for him not liking your pages on Facebook, I get why u find that annoying but I would not read into it too deeply. I would stop contacting him for a while (perhaps a month) to see of he contacts you first and if he doesn't then phone him for a telephone conversation or ask him 2 meet u 4 a face 2 face chat and see if he has changed towards u. If he has changed towards u I would be open with him and mention your feelings making sure to stress the fact u want to remain FRIENDS.... Who knows, he may be jealous or upset u have a boyfriend ?????? Good luck.
- rowtonsrLv 44 years ago
I even have the comparable precise difficulty! Wow, i presumed she became into the only one like that! i will inform you what i do. First i began chatting together with her approximately it in an exceedingly helpful way, to no longer harm her thoughts. After that, i waited it out, you comprehend to work out if she began to alter. undesirable element became into-she did no longer. So each and each time my different friends could make relaxing of her in her face i could say. "provide up being so immature! Thats how she acts and if u can no longer manage it than your no longer in simple terms loosing one buddy, your gonna loose me as a buddy too!" That helpful as hell close them up. have not heard a observe of it in view that. solid luck :) xxx
