Tell me if you think she is cheating.?

Try to keep this short. My wife and I are having problems. First I live in a town 2.5 hours away. Finally found a job I have been looking for for three years. Which she did not like from the start, for the fact the nearest metro areas did not like her work.

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I visit two weekends a month, she visits one day a month. When I call she does not answer or return my calls. A person called me looking for her, it was a college. I have texted her once and called her four times in the past two days, no answer no call.

She has told me I can not give her large texts because she does not like texting back because she does not have a texting keyboard to text back. I am the one that pays the phone bill. So you could say I am forbid of any long texts.

She recently wanted me off accounts I have started before we were married because I am having trouble with college loans right now but in the process of correcting.

Almost every visit has some sort of tiff with it. Last time she was mad I was living where I was even though she has talked about coming out to live but her mind changes.

She complains about me not calling but when I do she never answers or returns the call so I stop unless there is a reason because (and I have told her this repeatedly) I do not want or need the aggravation and it shows a lack of respect for me. It been like that for so long she has never gain trust to emergency contact for me.

Also our 8th anniversary was a few weeks ago I gave her something, her mom bought me something and she gave me nothing.

My friends think she is having an affair. I do not think so, but accept it might be a possible. Please let me know you answer and why you think so. Thank You