I am a young white man who has converted/reverted to Islam my question is how do Muslims marry should there is?

Allah killed Mohammad to show he wasn’t a true prophet & he also brought him to shame.

In the Quran Sura : 69:44-46 Allah says

Qur’an 69:44-46—And if he (Muhammad) had forged a false saying concerning Us We surely should have seized him by his right hand (or with power and might), and then certainly should have CUT OFF HIS LIFE ARTERY (AORTA). (Hilali-Khan)

Qur’an 69:44-46—And if he had fabricated against Us some of the sayings, We would certainly have seized him by the right hand, then We would certainly have CUT OFF HIS AORTA. (Shakir)

Tafsir Jalalayn on Qur’an 69:44-46—And had he, namely, the Prophet (s), fabricated any lies against Us, by communicating from Us that which We have not said, We would have assuredly seized him, We would have exacted vengeance [against him], as punishment, by the Right Hand, by [Our] strength and power; then WE WOULD HAVE ASSUREDLY SEVERED HIS LIFE-ARTERY, THE AORTA OF THE HEART, A VEIN THAT CONNECTS WITH IT, AND WHICH IF SEVERED RESULTS IN THAT PERSON'S DEATH.

Mohammad wanted to die in the cause of Allah.

Sahih al-Bukhari 2797—The Prophet said, . . . “By Him in Whose Hands my soul is! I would love to be martyred in Allah’s Cause and then come back to life and then get martyred, and then come back to life again and then get martyred and then come back to life again and then get martyred.”

But that is not what he got a Jewish woman poisoned him. Mohammad inflicted a lot of torture to the Jews and Jewess Zaynab's family was not spared by Mohammad. And secondly, Mohammad called women deficient in intelligence.

But here we have a Jewish woman who poisoned Mohammad. Allah allowed a Jewish woman to poison Mohammad. Thus bringing Mohammad to shame disgrace and humiliating him.

Let's see what Mohammad says after he has had the poison.

Sahih al-Bukhari 4428—The Prophet in his ailment in which he died, used to say, “O Aishah! I still feel the pain caused by the food I ate at Khaibar, and at this time, I FEEL AS IF MY AORTA IS BEING CUT FROM THAT POISON"

Sunan Abu Dawud 4449—Umm Bishr said to the Prophet during the sickness of which he died: What do you think about your illness, Apostle of Allah? I do not think about the illness of my son except the poisoned sheep of which he had eaten with you at Khaibar. The Prophet said: And I do not think about my illness except that. THIS IS THE TIME WHEN IT CUT OFF MY AORTA.

According to Qur'an 69:44-46, if Muhammad were a false prophet, Allah would sever his aorta. Interestingly, when Muhammad died, he said he could feel his sorta being severed.

So we have Allah who not only severed Mohammad's aorta but added to his degradation by making him die at the hands of a Jewish Woman.

To conclude: Nothing what I have said about Mohammad comes any where near what Allah says about Mohammad. If you take all the human insults towards Mohammad like the Danish cartoons, the Satanic verses etc & roll it up into a big ball even then it comes no where close to what Allah did to insult Mohammad by severing his aorta. Allah is Mohammad's biggest critic.

Now are you Muslims going to run around screaming that Allah is an islamophobic bigot because he insulted Mohammad? Or are you going to accept correction from the Almighty?

Islam means submission. Muslims think it means submission to Allah but Allah has already given his answer. He commands you to reject Mohammad. If you continue believing in Mohammad, what you are really saying is Allah cannot make me stop believing in Mohammad I don't care what Allah says I will believe in Mohammad anyway.

But in that case Islam isn't submission to Allah but to Mohammad.

White Reverts

Marriage is such a huge problem for you guys?!Muslims simply need to ask their mothers to find a woman of your choice.She will search a good match for you, or if you like she will have no of proposals from many and can choose and if both of them agree its done,as simple as that.Cant buy the flawed logic that it is necessary to date, love a woman before marriage.Also it has nothing to do with successful marriage.Even after years of dating marriages have failed and majority of such marriages ends in divorce.Also it is strange to believe one cannot love your spouse if the marriage is arranged by parents!When will these people come out of this mental blockage.

Islam is strictly against any relationship before marriage for obvious reason of women honor dignity and expolitation of their body souls by prospective husbands(sex marketters and thugs) who are only interested in few nights and not bother to take any responsibility to take care of woman,children and all that is attached to a marriage.

you can pretend to be a muslim, but the muslims don't consider you one really; and you're not going to the heaven place with them.

Now as far as marrying, you'll have to decide if you're a moderate pretend muslim, or if you're an orthodox pretend muslim. If you're moderate then go looking for a nice moderate muslim girl, she might go on a date with you; or if you're devout then you have to hope someone has an ugly older daughter than they can't marry off to a real muslim man.

Dating is forbidden in islam,because it's led you to the premarriage sex,which actually destroys the natural law of God.

If you like someone ask your parents to go to the girl's parents.and if your parents are not agree because (they may be non-muslims) than you could go yourself to propose the girl.

So exactly how much studying of Islam did you do before converting? I might have some land to sell you!

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In Islam it is rather simple and uncomplicated like for others. You make intention to marry, find a wife (either by asking your local Imam to introduce you to single sisters in your city) or ask friends who are Muslim to help you or a combination of using Online Muslim Matrimonials. Do Istaqara (prayer) to see if you feel she is a good match for you and if so marry her!

Below is an excerpt from an Article I wrote:

Contact 5-8 sisters who are already on the site. Then Insha Allah,a few will reply and you should tell them you have serious intention for marriage and you would like to chat with her in a halal manner to find out more about her. Ask her about her religion, her life, her family, her wiliness to relocate or not. And never ask about sexual preference. Stay within the Matrimonial site to chat,(don’t worry Admins have no way to access what is being said) do not go to Yahoo or MSN because you like the features better. Stay away from video chat until you are very sure she is someone you want to *marry* (video chat may enable haram even if you are pretty good in your deen) If you choose to use the phone, this is fine but remember her voice is “aura” and do not lose yourself. Maintain respect and dignity at all times.

Check out the 100 questions to ask your potential spouse. It will give you something halal to ask and for her to reply about. Do not expect you will ask all 100 questions in one chat session.

Choose to speak to only her since she was the first to reply back to you. Do not get diverted to other profiles until you are 100% sure she is no longer a viable lead towards marriage. Tell others who did reply back that you are speaking serious with one at a time and if things do not work out that you will contact her. Be polite and cordial with all sisters. Do not maintain friendship with her if things do not work out! (Very important!)

If she is good in her Deen (Religion), make Al-Istikhaarah.

Ask her for marriage.

It should be that simple.

(And among His Signs is this that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your [hearts] . . .) (Qur’an 30:21)

You do not need one million profiles to lure you to never finding your spouse. Can you imagine? It is shayton to have so many profiles because you keep getting a feeling there is someone better out there, someone better, and someone better and you miss “Sister Maryam was excellent choice.” It doesn’t hurt in the West to seek references, do a back ground check and have each see a Medical Doctor for a clean bill of health prior to marriage but each should agree to it.

“This world is just temporary conveniences, and the best comfort in this world is a righteous women.”1

IF you happen to come across one who is not serious- you will know. Does she dive into the realm of haram? Skip her.

Going from the point of intention to Marriage should take no more than three to four months. So if you have been on Muslim Matrimonial for 1-10 years as a male you should rethink your approach in a serious way.

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Well, no you can't walk with any girl or have interactions with her before your married...you can ask some brothers if they know any one who is available and you find out about her ..but until no contract no relationship :)

in islam, you can save money on marriages by marrying multiple wives at once.