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Lv 5

Not really sure how to word this, women's advice needed though?!?

My fiance wants me to give him a ******* frequently. The thing is, I tried it once and couldn't do it because I gagged. Now whenever the topic comes up, he'll say "man, i wish i could get a *******". He also said that he understands that I don't feel comfortable doing it; but lately it feels like he doesn't care about my comfort level and just wants me to do it for HIM. Anyone know what I can do the next time he brings it up?

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  • **ek**
    Lv 7
    9 years ago
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    not to be a jerk, but a girl who couldn't give me a bj wouldn't get past date #2. and about 95% of guys feel the same way i do.

    don't give up on him. you are fishing from a small pool of guys that will look past this issue you have

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    And you want to marry this guy?

    Any guy that pressures you do do something you don't want to do does not respect you. I would consider putting the wedding on hold until you can work something out, and I highly recommend abstaining from all sexual activity before marriage. If he can't do that for you, then does he really love you?

  • 9 years ago

    I say go for it gagging always happens at least once. Just saying think as if you were a guy.

  • 9 years ago

    Ask for something he hates doing and if he does it then perhaps you could consider doing this favor for him as a kind of payback.

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  • 9 years ago

    do it but afterwords make him cross dress and go to the bar wearing pantyhoes mini skirt heels bra panties and a tubetop ahahaha that would be good payback

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