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Joel
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Joel asked in HealthMental Health · 9 years ago

Anyone have any words of motivation?

It seems as if my life is getting worse and worse, normally I can shake negative things on and move on, but there's only so much a guy can take. This may sound like a rant but here it does. It seems like god took all the bad physical qualities and shoved them into one human. Before I go on just know I'm not pessimistic or a downer, I am completely normal mentally. I hate to admit it but I'm really unattractive, I take care of my health but there are some things I cant control, my body is kind of weird, my face is just horrible. I have tanned skin (which everyone hates where I live), I have extremely thick short black hair which cant even be combed down so my hair is really bad, my forehead is slanted, my teeth are extremely crooked, and my head is extremely round. Everyday people criticize me or laugh at me for looking weird. I am also always shaking, everyone points it out and I'm sick of it. I can be a calm as possible but my nerves are out of control. I don't have any friends at all, I am a really cool person, based on people I knew, and I am also very funny. But people never want to get close to me because of my horrible looks, looks are everything these days. I am also very kind but that doesn't matter anymore. Every time I ask my teachers a question they get mad or ignore me. Everyone on the football team hated me. No one is ever nice to me not even my family. I am also poor, which I cannot control because I'm only 16. I always get good grades and I am currently in Dual Enrollment taking college course but I still think, what is the point of working hard academically if I wont be able to get a job because of the way I look. It saddens me to see I am smart and kind yet my life sucks, yet all those harsh, mean. dumb but good looking people have everyone kissing up to them, they have relationships and jobs. And no I'm not exaggerating. So my question is: Does anyone have any motivational words I honestly feel like just giving up.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    Never give up. Your weaknesses will become your strengths. I can bet ten bucks your better at at least one thing then anyone less. That one thing is just reading what you had written. Your expressive. Who cares what anyone looks like.And who made these claims that vanity and what humans are supposed tolook like determines what is taking place on Earth? Make your own club of men, women and children and elders just like you. Though do remember that there are persons that are born deformed, there are mena nd women that are gay or lesbiens or transexuals or there are those thta was born as sime twins, and there was also the elaphant man who deep down inside knew of his own moral goodness dipite what others thought. This isn't about who is most beautiful, this is about the globe and cleaning the air system and the water and the soil and reforming the human race to at least have a place to live in the future with the population growing at the rate of one baby every half of a second which is ridiculous. Just be yourself, and if no onelikes you for who you are, I can bet there are many more just like you, you are not alone. Blelieve it. We are not alone, I do bleieve as huge as the Universe is there is life on other planets soay deep in outer space and planetary systems of aliens that look much different then humans do. Do you know animals don't think that way as humans do, animals care for their heard or their kind. Hey, I have poor spelling and grammer and look down on myself because so. I have bad teeth and it doesn't bother me a bit. If others don't like it then so what. All my clothes are tatered and sewn, and don't have any clothes that are really nice, yet that doesn't make me jealous of those that have nice clothes or a vast wardrobe. Just be yourself and think in your mind how weird everyone else looks, and you surprizing see when your able to turn off that negative mental perception how much more beatuful everyone will think you are no matter who you are or what you look like or what you dress like, it is what is on the inside that really counts. You can't judge a book nor a human being by it's skin or cover, and that is an axion to uphold more truth than anything writtenin history.

    Source(s): perfer to keep my sourse to myself.
  • 9 years ago

    Joel, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!! You are a beautiful person with a brilliant mind :) don't ever give up, you aren't weak, ad that's what weak people do. You are a strong indipendant person who can do many great things for your community. Giving up is never the answer!! There are a lot of people who look for brains instead of looks, you are not ugly, and you will be appealing to someone. There is someone looking for you right now, waiting to find and love you :)

  • 9 years ago

    In order to be motivated you must first be inspired. Find an inspiration, learn from it.

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