my waif has sexual relation before marriage.after 11years of marriage i know?

I hope you can learn the difference between a wife and a waif.

It seems that you recently found out about something that your wife did a long time ago.

NOW is not the time to cry about it.

You have been with her for 11 years and you love her very much.

So, if you love her very much, then drop this OLD issue, immediately!

Nothing good can come from your 11 year too late reaction.

You need to talk this out with her, and get your interest back, if you cant have sex with her.

I'm not sure if you are hurt or jealous.

Seek professional attention if this continues to influence your life and relationship in a negative way.

I am a 24yr old virgin but most of my friends aren't and they are not married. How often do you find a virgin these days? Are you going to crucify her for something that happened more than a decade ago? Then what? She loves you and you have a kid together. I bet she's never cheated in all those 11years of your marriage. All of us have secrets and imperfections. If you divorce her, the next woman probably won't be a virgin, if she is, she'll also think that you've slept with someone before and won't want to make love. If she was also married you'll think she was with someone before as well. So no matter what you do now, you won't be able to have sex. Just stay with your wife, talk things over. I hear you can tell if someone is a virgin or not so if you couldn't tell then it means she had it once which wasn't enough to leave noticeable damage which is why you couldn't tell. She probably regretted it. Don't spoil both your lives and your kid's. Go for counselling if you have to, but forgive your wife after all she's never cheated and it happened before she met you. She must have hated herself for losing her virginity to some skunk, don't let her suffer again if you really love her. Embrace her for who she is and don't keep account of her imperfections. If everyone did that, we'll all die alone. We all do things we regret at some point but we shouldn't have to pay for them after a decade.

sorry, naved, you KNEW she is not virgin when you married her. Instead of turning her back to her parents, you made a kid together and waited for 11 years, so your or her feelings are of no importance at all. Recognize it.

Raise you kid well - it's your MAJOR duty. If you want her - have her, if you can't - buy sex for yourself and don't think about it too much; You are just paying for your OWN decisions, okay? Live with it!

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everyone has there secrets. i had sex and im not that old but im to afraid to tell anyone. she was probl just like me and did something she regreted. now shes happy and its years later and she feels she is confident in her self enough to finally speak about it

everyone has a past, the problem is in your mind, its your ego and your issues if she loves you and you love her be happy you have a good wife, don't dwell in the past that's just crazy.

What happened before you got together is the past and should be forgotten and buried.

Divorce that hoe.

R u sure?