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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a month now, but we've been REALLY great friends for the past 3 years. He's 17 and i'm 15. Although we can act completely normal around eachother he doesnt really want people to know about us. He's an amazing guys and always makes my day. He does however do some things i'm not proud of...like drink. He also has a little boy that just turned 4 who lives far away, but always keeps close contact with him. He treats me right and we are always there for eachother...but lately it's been ify. Is this gonna last? :'/

SoliloquyGirl · Accepted Answer

I'm sure he's a nice guy - but I would be wary of any 17 year old with a 4 year old kid. That might be short sighted of me, but at 15, I would not want to get mixed up in someone else's baby daddy drama. I think you should cut and run, and hopefully be able to salvage your friendship in the process.

? · Answer

If he isn't "proud" to show to the others that you are his girlfriend then it might not last. And he has a kid so he needs some of his time for him. You might just be like an "extra" in his life. Sorry about that

Dancespiker7 · Answer

Generally its up to you.  If you feel like its too much and you start to not like him tell him that.  You have been good friends for 3 years!!!!  If he doesnt understand then so be it.  There are pleanty of guys out there!!!  Just know everything happens for a reason! :)

Tylor · Answer

Yeah I'm gonna agree with Moka, it seems like you are just some extra in his life so he can go play girls and 'get some' on the side.

12disneyhater · Answer

Wait, he's 17 and has a 4-year-old son? That doesn't sound safe....

James · Answer

pretty sure that's illegal...17 yr old and 15 year old is illegal...age of consent is 16...

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