Married men get dull?

well, u married a truck driver, what did u expect? u wanted a man taking a shower regularly and dressed nicely and being romantic and stimulating - should have found a man working some intellectial job. like a banl manager. if he ever wanted u of course. and for your dude - if he has a heart problems maybe he shouldn´t be drinking strong drinks like there is no tomorrow?

Based on your description, your sexual intimacy issues stem from poor communication.

The fact he is dull is a personal issue, not a gender one.

Only the people that haven't done anything meaningful to solve their problems, either through conversation or therapy, find the need to complain.

EDIT: Did you try couple therapy ? After reading your additional details, it seems these issues are beyond your control and this might be your only option.

EDIT2: Misjudged you then, I apologize for that. In any case, if he isn't willing to commit to a change in spite of how you feel currently, your only option is too weigh whether this kind of life is what you want for yourself or divorce and find a man willing to fulfill your needs.

Honestly, no one deserves this kind of apathy from their own significant other. Specially a dedicated wife like yourself. :/

You need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk with your husband. Tell him that you need more time with him and you miss him. Let him know you are concerned he has become depressed and needs to see the doctor. He needs help in dealing with his depression and lack of sexual drive and you may have to insist he go. You husband sounds like he feels depressed due to his job and his physical condition. Ask him what you can do to help him make the changes he wants. Maybe he needs to find a new job, get medication for his sex drive & depression and start dieting and exercising. Tell him if he doesn't change some things, he may not be around for much longer and you want him to be here with you.

Take care!

Hi. I hear your heart . You want him to love you, not just sexually.

The problem is him not you. Sounds like he doesn't talk to you.

Counseling might help. But you need to tell him first how you feel.

But do it with love and patience.

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Penis pump? I'd say viagra, but with the heart meds, that may not work.

Also, try sex toys. That is a great way to spice things up, with or without him.

Sounds like he's visiting with the lot lizards, sorry.

You don't.

You drop 50lb and GTFO.

It depends. I bet his mistress doesn't think so.

Sounds like you are the problem.