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How do I get over someone? Not a lot of options.?

It's so odd. I'd never thought i'd come back here for love advice. But here I am in a pickle. So basically I met this girl online a while back and we hit it off right away, being a bit younger back then we didn't realize that ever actually meeting each other would be a lot tougher than it sounded. We live thousands of miles apart. I know that I love her. She loves me too. There have been a lot of times when we agreed we were gonna move on cause of the whole distance thing. But I just can't seem to get over her and and she can't do the same about me.

We both do not have the resources to see each at this time. In fact we won't for some time. I need to know what is the only way out. I believe that meeting someone new (here) is gonna help a lot.

Thanks for reading.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    Thats def a tough one! I went through something similar, but I feel like your case is a little tougher based on the fact that it was mutual and not ending on a bad note.

    As hard as this is, the only way that you two will move on from one another is to cut off all contact. Facebook, cell phone number, texting, IMing, ect. Also just go out and try to meet some new people. Yeah, finding someone else WILL help you move on, but until then, you guys need to cut all contact.

    I know thats not what you want to hear, but from my experience, its one of the only ways!

    Good luck!

  • 9 years ago

    To get over someone... Hmm... well if you said you loved her that would be tough. But, spend some time doing activities that you haven't done or would like to do, just to fresh your mind and clear out some things for example, hiking, exercising or perhaps meeting with your friends. If you guys are continuing to date and worried about the whole distance thing, you two will meet each other. And if you still love her and care about her, don't forget about her because when you look back, you might regret it. Best of luck.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Have sex with someone else. I find a new cawkk up my vadgeee makes the old memories disappear.

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