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How to guarantee happiness, love, seriousness, ... to my ex-gf?
Me and my ex-gf were living together for 3 years, after which I have decided to break up and asked her to move out as I was not feeling like marrying her due to various reasons, some where my fault and some were here's. She tried to convince me that the relationship can work but I insisted.
6 months later, I asked her back which she happily accepted after i promised her that I will change, but it took another 6 month to break up again. This time also was my decision.
Now, I want her back and I'm serious about it, but this time she rejected. She said that I have broken her heart enough times.
I want to tell her that I will really take care of her this time and it will be different. what if I propose to her? is this a good idea to tell her that I'm serious this time.
One more thing, she met a guy who was here for a short visit and now they are talking over the internet, she told me that she loves him, however this guy is in a relationship with another girl.
6 Answers
- ?Lv 49 years agoFavorite Answer
Stop putting her on a pedestal and kissing her backside.
Is your self-esteem that low or do you really think she is better than you? Focus on your own happiness and your own flippin' life (just like she is doing).
- Common SenseLv 79 years ago
Gosh, your ex girlfriend sure cannot pick good men.
Now, you cannot play yo-yo with this girl's heart, you know.
You are immature and you keep repeating the same mistakes. Fortunately, she has begun to wise up. I do not blame her for not wanting to come back to you. However, what have your really done to change yourself, I wonder. Have you sought out counseling or are you just doing like you did before and curing yourself temporarily until whatever is wrong with you happens again?
I wold steer clear of you if I were her.
- 9 years ago
Regardless, you need to work on what committment means to you, first. In and Out is a burger joint not a relationship. It looks as if you need to grow. What do you need and what can you offer. What is happiness, love and seriousness to you and is it the same to the individual you are going to have the relationship. Try having a pet first and move on to a person.
Source(s): Relationship book - Gary BLv 79 years ago
You already blew it. You DO NOT pkay with a woman's emotions like that.
This relationship is done, finished, and over with. YOU have destroyed her trust in you, and proposing would be an insult.
Take your new found, serious self into a new relationship.
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- Keysha JLv 59 years ago
Be a friend a tell you always be there for her is she ever need someone to talk to. Tell her you all you ever wanted were the best for her ever if it not with you
- 9 years ago
kick rocks dude, what if the tables were turned??? move on, is she like the only woman on earth?? no. move on, leave the poor girl alone!!!
