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How to be the nice , popular girl ??!?!?

OK , in high school i wanna be the nicest girl and popular but i dont wana be a slut or a cheerleader and im not really interested in relations soo .. . btw i didn't start high school yet but i just wanna practice so i can be like this in high school im in the eighth grade ?????

Update:

I've been told that i am pretty i just hang out with the wrong people aka ghetto -.- but im not its just the sit next to me in class , and i have really nice style !

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  • 9 years ago
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    my answer to you is

    know everyone by out-going and stand out in a good way. alway popular people don't pay attention to their popularity. i mean they know they are but they aren't like " i'm so popular and everyone loves me" sorta thing. but i would just be really active in school and extracurricular activities. i mean it doesn't have to be cheerleading. but you should be cool with those girls. fyi the cheerleaders aren't always the most popular girls. thank GOD. anyway here is your list:

    look nice everyday

    be nice to everyone

    get to know everyone

    be helpful to everyone

    get respect ( everyone isn't going to like you , but they need to respect you)

    be a leader

    don't be afraid to stand out ( IN A GOOD WAY)

    compliment everyone ( you should be able to look at anyone and give them a compliment on something)

    don't be afraid if you stand alone ( being different is good)

    DO NOT follow the crowd! at least 75% of the time.

    throw fun parties ! through out the year and invite people.

    BE CONFIDENT ( since that's what everybody wants , if your not just act and protray that you are.)

    DON'T BE A STUCK UP ***** !!! ( that's not being popular your just being a *****)

    DON'T TRY TO HARD , LET EVERYTHING FLOW.

    BE EASY GOING.

    SAY HI , in a nonchalant way to everyone who meets your glance.

    - always when you go to highschool , you will be able to spot out who is popular just so you know. find out what appeals to them. don't be just like them. but try to get yourself noticed.

    alot of things about being popular do contradict themselves. but you should at the end of the day just want to be yourself. you'll come out knowing yourself alot better.

    anyway i hope this helps. i was pretty popular in school , also word of advice , you don't want to be popular. you want to be WELL KNOWN. you want people you don't know , knowing your name.

    lastly while being popular , keep in mind that you could instantly not be popular anymore. so be humble about everything. if someone gives you a compliment , you should say thank you and give them a compliment back. it's just nice thing to do. REMEMBER NOT POPULAR , WELL KNOWN.

    Source(s): real life.
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Well you cant force popularity... If you got it you got it... BUT what can help is you're more social, talk to everyone even if they aren't popular, or "cool"!... Get good grades and be obedient to the teachers, Hang with all the crowds/ cliques... one day you hang with the popular girls, the next day youre with the nerds... something like that. Also smile, be funny, and flirty... think your cute and others will as well but dont be snobby and stay humble!. But even if youre humble popular do not let appearance slip, have your hair nice, and set trends not follow! But popular clothes are aero, hollister, a&f..... and shoes are converse, sperrys, uggs and vans. But piece thing together and dont forget accessories! Have people asking you wear you get your clothes but always say you dont remember, know, or somewhere by your aunts house... (etc.) Remember not everyone will like you... you will have some haters... and dont change to this overnight, or you will be known as a poser let it happen over tym! GOOD LUCK HOPE I HELPED!!

    ANSWER MINES PLEASE! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqBZ2...

    Source(s): successful popular girl lolz
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    5 years ago

    They're standard when you consider that they are exact and first-class to folks and they are now not false?? Either that or they're simply lovely and get slightly extra male concentration & others desire a work of it and check out to be like them. Looks & repute do not final lengthy past high school - folks develop up! It's continually larger to begin developing up as you and now not a few lapdog follower cos that is simply now not stunning!

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