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Is it possible to be in love with someone and be with them if you aren't sexually attracted to them?

I'm a lesbian. Boys don't repulse me but I don't want a whole lot to do with them. There's this guy though and we've known each other for 4 years. I'd say we're definitely in love. I can imagine spending the rest of my life with him. I'm not really attracted to him in a sexual way but I think I just care about him so much as a person that it doesn't really matter anymore.. We've had sex before and it wasn't repulsing in any way.. not exactly my thing but I did enjoy just being with him..

Am I absolutely crazy or is this possible?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I'm the same way.Honestly,I don't want sex at all.I want to be with the person I love..Remember this,Love isn't sex..sex is sex,and love is love

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