Why are black people uncivilized and "ghetto" and howcome they don't realize how trashy they can be?

A lot of who we are is determined by our upbringing.

They had major role models in their lives who dressed and talked like that, and they ended up following suit.

Part of it stems from having a family history of poverty, where the values that the family instills in the child will be more based on survival skills than on what mainstream Western society considers positive, like getting a good education and going on to an advanced career.

Just try to imagine growing up in a ghetto. You might only have a mother who works 50+ hours a week to feed you. She can hardly ever afford to buy you new clothes, toys, or any other necessities. Your home is filthy. Every night, you are kept awake by violence in the streets.

Growing up in an environment like that would make anyone value different things than a "civilized" life would. For one, you would need to be tough and able to stand up for yourself. You would also need to be accepted by the other people in the neighborhood by dressing in the same way and mimicking their style of speech - if you aren't accepted, you don't have anyone to watch your back, and you get killed. For women, you need to be promiscuous, as it helps you to get what you need.

It's all a vicious cycle. The only way to get out of it is to get a good education and move up to a higher class where one has a stable career and a home. However, that is quite a bit more difficult for people who live in such a hostile environment that don't value this type of success at all. Eventually, the ones who don't get out have sex, have babies, and the cycle renews itself.

Black Ghetto People

What bothers me about this question is when you say "Black People". It sounds like you're talking about the Black Race period. And, who are you to define what trashy dressing looks like?.It's a lot of fat white women that wear the same type clothing, Why didn't you mention them?.You have more Whites killing their kids and whole family than blacks would ever dream. The killings started years ago by whites that killed blacks for sport, So please don't talk about violence. It's good and bad in every race, And, you are a racist to ask the question and your statements are proof of that. God created us all in His image. Only people that think they are better than the next person is really the trash and ghetto..

Why Are Black People Ghetto

Ive seen lots of ppl in school that u can consider ghetto blacks and they always think they are the best and u know what I got joked by one and I just give that ***_a a good beating. Next time I saw him u wasnt like the way he wad anymore. So the best way to teach then to be more civilized is to show them that they arent better then anyone else.

Why do black ghetto people ruin neighborhoods? I understand they lived a rough life because of poverty, but once they get government help they can live in normal neighborhoods, but you know what...this doesn t change them a bit, instead they are always shirtless, loud and always on on the front porch in big groups that behave the same way, disrespectful to girls in the neighborhood, play basketball in the middle of the street like they own it, did I say they are always outside doing nothing everyday? , they don t following the city regulations such as their trash overflowing on the fron of the house, multiple cars parked on their front yard blocking the sidewalks and sometimes the street!, loud music at anytime even after midnight, even though the neighbors call the cops for noise, next week they will do it again! It s like they dont want change or adapt to a better neighborhood instead they ruin it.

I am black and I don't think she is racist.Most blacks hate the truth sweety and it will never change,most blacks are wired differently,even when they try to do right it seems very off.As a black woman I am different from the majority and stay away from my own race.They have caused me destruction,pain and lots of set backs.As I triumph over all adversities,they say it's because I am light skinned,not because I work my *** off.I have stood by and watch my ppl not make anything of opportunities my heart long for,still they never learn from others how it's done.Instead they say you are actin like you are better then them.I just sent a family member home,I am done trying to help him.I am the only who is different and I took him here trying to save him from the ghetto lifestyle,because he could die,but instead he was about to bring the ghetto to my lovely neighborhood and I could tell my correcting him was starting to irritate him,sweety just leave them alone and watch your back,blacks will never change,no one made them that way,it's what it is,I'm done trying,and you shouldn't make it your business,because you don't have to deal with them,unless you re black.

I have to agree on this topic. I am NOT raciest either but I see more crimes, murders and drug dealers and unacceptable behavior in public in the black community. What's up with these people? If you ever get into an disagreement with a female black lady, trust me you wont even have a civil conversation without having them up in your face and not letting you get a word in. If Martin Luther King, Jr. was to see everything he fought for the black community, he would have turned over in his grave!

So Sad!!

for me it depends upon the girl. Like I might observe a girl with black hair as well as think she is totally hot however see a girl with blond curly hair that is meh and vice versa.

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Jet black hair. I have truly dark brown hair and I consider dark hair looks better. I don't really like blonde hair.