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She dumped me... because of my FEMALE friends? was I stupid?? help me understand this?
I got back with my ex. Probably not the smartest decision but when I wasn't with her- I really missed her. So, I told her all this and we tried dating again. Things were really good when we were around each other... but she always had things that bothered her- I don't think she was honestly happy. Like I said when we were around each other it was really nice- different than before.
anyways, I have a lot of female friends... she wasn't comfortable with this. She said she wouldn't care if the girls were in relationships, married or etc. Some of my female friends aren't really girls I'd consider dating I guess. I wouldn't classify them as "wifey" material. A few of them do drugs, have multiple kids-different dads and the list goes on. She always questioned why I entertained or even kept friendships with these type of girls.
It made her really upset. I even told her one of them use to have feelings for me. She would always say that I just use them for an ego boost and that I never know when to draw the line. I know she honestly hated it.
She always told me she never had guy friends like that around... and I know she didn't have anything like that in the background or her past. No exes lingering around or anything
Maybe I f*cked up eh? She was nothing like them. Had a good head on her shoulders, good career, attractive, active, went to church and a damn virgin. maybe one day it'll click in that I really lost a good thing
Who knows. Just some advice.
I'm 28 she's 24. She ended the relationship. and basically told me to not talk to her again because she wants to get over me and move on.
this is my sisters account... hence the picture.
I get that she had insecure qualities but what if it was me... maybe I give off a vibe.
man who knows. maybe I could have looked past her insecure qualities and worked with her a lil.
She was quality man.. so many rare traits together
jealous and insecure ya.. but she never asked me to stop talking to anyone- just wanted it to be clear that all of that those type of female friends made her uncomfortable. Again, you can only gather so much from a question.. it wasn;t all my female friends...
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- mistista07Lv 69 years agoFavorite Answer
There are some women that are uncomfortable with their man having female friends. I agree 1000% with your ex. She is a woman and 99/100 women don't want their man around other women. Its awkward and honestly I don't feel it is appropriate. I do feel that men like you adore the extra attention. Honestly you were a fool to let that women go over so called scallywag friends. How many of these so called friends would be there for you got sick and ended up in this hospital? Think about this, if you are out with one of your female friends, then what is the gf doing at home alone? I don't think a man can give his best to a real relationship with the party going on. Men need to have male friends and women need women friends. Its my opinion that men around a lot of women tend to get flirty and don't know how to keep it a strictly unflirtations friendships. I am sure you have crossed the line many times and I don't blame you ex for leaving. How would you feel is she had like 6 different single guy friends around all the time? Listen some women are jealous but in your ex's case I think she just felt disrespected. There is a huge difference. Good luck finding somebody with half her qualities. I understand because I am a woman that does not condone my husband having female friends. I dont perfer he even has them as aquaintences but I do agree thats as far as it can go. These situations should be hi/bye associates, someone he texts maybe here and there, helps out here and there--nothing steady like everyday.
- Anonymous9 years ago
Do you see what you get for breaking rule number 1 never ever date anyone who has earned the title of x in your dating pool. There is a reason that she earned the title of x you should always respect her ability to earn that title.
- Anonymous9 years ago
Rare traits: Possessiveness, jealousy, insecurity, distrust, and you were broken up.
She is a real unicorn.
