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GUYS ONLY! what's your opinion?!?

Met this guy about 4 months ago. Hes in a volunteer program and can't date for another month. Anyway, since we've met we've become close friends. We used to hang out a lot and have all our meals together (with other friends too though). He acts jealous when i say things about other guys and is always talking about his muscles, working out, etc... in front of me. He used to text a lot, but not as much anymore. He alwaysss facebook chats me, every single day still, a lot. Sometimes though, he will decline an invite to hang out (if he has hmwk or is with his guy friends).

Anyway, the question is.... does he seem interested? But if he was, would a guy ever decline an invite to hang out with the girl he liked? I know he's not really a player... but does this sound like we're just friends or more? thank you!

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    This does not sound like friendship to me, at all! Obviously, from the things you mention, he is kind of a shy guy, which doesn't mean anything bad or wrong. Regarding the hang out thing, perhaps, he is not ready yet or he feels a bit insecure (and that's the reason he talks about muscles and working out on front of you). You shouldn't give up on him, if you like him. Give some time to you both and something wonderful might come up. You could propose him to go out with other people, so that the ice will break. That is just an idea. I wish you good luck!

  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    Yeah, girl he likes u and is really interested. Thats plain simple from whats happening. If he doesnt like u then why would he get jealous when u talk about other guy. If u want to make sure then try to go straight and ask him whether he likes to be with u or u go in league with some of his very close friends and set them up to ask and know whether he likes u or not. And he will be a fool to let go of nice girl as u, he will regret it and dont worry u two wil be together if u two were meant for each other.

    Source(s): Wish u the best. Good luck and be happily together ever after.....
  • 9 years ago

    well when you boil it down, he gets jealous when you talk about guys and he tries to impress you with his physical fitness and he love chatting with you, he does seem interested! try asking him out for a date like a, walk in the park just the two of you or a dinner date with just you two. maybe you might get somewhere! hope this helps! :P

  • 9 years ago

    Take some more time. you both will get to know by yourself. i feel you both are very good couple but you have decide it talking to him. anyways all the very best. thank you

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