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Please help me i want to keep going to school but its just too diffucult?

hi im 17 and im in my second last year of school

i have missed most of this year of school because of bullying (mental bullying) not one person in my entire school talks to me the only time anyone talks to me is to laugh at me and i cant take going in there every day anymore

i know i have to go to school and get good marks to get anyway in life and i really want to but i just cant go in there and i feel so guilty for missing so much time and i just dont know what to do anymore

im trying so hard to make myself go in every day but when i do i end up in tears when i come home and crying myself to sleep at night

There is no other school around for me to go to and home schooling just isnt an option for me

Can anyone help me please

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  • 9 years ago
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    In a way, it is too late now to help you. You should have got help when this bullying first started. Every school has to have a written policy to deal with bullying and if you had reported it when it first started something would have to have been done.

    At least you do not have to go to school as you are over 16 years of age. So, forget the rest of this year and start to plan for the next school year - starting in September 2012.

    It seems to me that you do really want to work hard to ensure a good future. So, sit down with whoever can advise you (parents, etc) and try to plan out the next few years.

    First, what sort of work do you really want to do - eventually? Lawyer, teacher, accountant, medical profession???

    When you have decided this, find out what exams you need to pass to train for this job. What GCSE's and A Levels will you need to pass?

    Then, find out where you can study these subjects - probably a local college. You say there is no other school around. Why is this? Do you live in the country, away from areas of population. (Where I live there are 5 comprehensive schools within 5 miles of my home and 3 grammar schools.) So, you may have to travel some way to the nearest college, but that's a small price to pay for success. When I was young I lived in the country and had to bike about 5 miles to grammar school and to study to be a teacher I had to leave home.

    Do not go back to school to have to put up with this mindless bullying. You say home schooling is not an option but that doesn't mean that you can't keep your mind active. Read a lot. Try to find a job, any job, shelf stacking, flipping burgers, waiting in cafes or similar. This will occupy your mind and earn you a few pounds.

    All the best.

  • 9 years ago

    Although you're having a horrible time at the moment, at least you've only got one more year of school like education left! Are you going to try and get in to university? It's completely different there, people are way more mature and friendly, and there's no doubt you'd make at least a few very valuable friends there. I know it must be absolutely awful for you at the moment, as a person who's been bullied myself i can empathize with how you feel. Try and focus on your education at the moment instead of the ridiculously immature and horrible people at school, that way you'll be far more successful and happy in life then they could ever dream of being, then who'll be laughing then?

  • 9 years ago

    try moving schools if its that bad or tell a teacher! you shouldn't have to put up with that. maybe even ask about home schooling?! your parents should do something, you're under a lot of stress. just do your best to try and do what you can and really, if it comes to it, tell on the worst offenders so others will probably stop. hope this helps!

  • 9 years ago

    Well,you should teach yourself.That what Bill Gate did because some jerk said he was not good enough to go to college.

    But that doesn't mean you should quit school,just teach yourself after school.

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