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My live in boyfriend makes fat jokes about me and calls me fat.?

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, he continually calls me fat and makes fat jokes about me. He always says no one likes fat girls and so on. A few weeks ago I had to make a pact with him to stop making fat jokes and I'll lose weight. To be honest I'm not that fat of a person because I constantly get hit on. I know I could use to lose some weight but I'm tired of being bashed by him. He also says that I look "disgusting" when I'm fat and that I don't take my shirt off during sex because " I'm emanrrased, as I should be". I don't know what to do. Yea I should lose a few but I'm tired of feeling worthless.

Update:

I'm including some of the text messages he sent me "Were having issues because of your weight. You are absolutely disgusting when your fat. Your attitude is at its worst" he also said "Lose weight and well be happy again. Because for some reason when your fat you get the nastiest fuxking attitude" "When are you gonna start losing weight again. I have kept up my side of the agreement , while you eat fast food everyday. Your at your fattest of all time and your showing no sign of stopping" " you don't even take your clothes off during sex because your embarrassed as yiu should be" and last but def not least "Everyfucking day I'm like **** man under my breath as you eat away. That's not a good look. When your in 130s your bombest ***** at smc on my mother, when your at the weight your at now.... you could fit in with the ghetto bitches with the red hair"

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  • 9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Dump the loser. That's called emotional abuse and you don't need to put up with that. You shouldn't have to make a pact in order to get your partner to treat you well. He should want to treat you well without having to be asked or begged. Find someone who accepts you for who you are.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Fat Boyfriend Jokes

  • 9 years ago

    too easy-kick his nasty *** out...u cud tell him what a useless lay he is...that uv met a guy much better equiped than his peeny weeny. get rid of the looser

  • DRE
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    EWE!! DUMP HIS DOUCHE A**. what an ******. I know you think you love him, but you don't. You deserve way better.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    What a moron!! Start talking about his wiener, see if he likes it.

  • 9 years ago

    Dump him.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    leave him , today is the day , leave him without any notice

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