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Bill asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 9 years ago

21 year old guy and 30 year old woman?

What would your opinion be on a 21 year old guy entering a purely sexual no strings relationship with a 30 year old woman, like a secret friends with benefits arrangement?

Too much of an age gap? And would keeping it secret be a good idea?

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  • 9 years ago

    Girls date older guys all the time, I don't see why a guy dating an older woman should be so much of an issue. It use to be that age really didn't matter at all. I still feel that way. If they're attracted to one another and are both single, why not?

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    properly i will say that maximum mothers and dads think of that that's extra respectful or lifelike for a guy 2 date a youthful woman and a woman 2 date an older guy ! they think of that the guy could desire to be the top of the dating so if the lady is older then the guy shes gonna desire 2 bypass order ! they think of which you are the female puppy!which iz nat tru! your mothers and dads in basic terms desire 2 relax and show you how to love whoever you desire in basic terms lik ur sister ! age isn't something yet a huge decision evaluate to love :) yet you have 2 becareful approximately who you're dating on the comparable time:) stick on your coronary heart! good success!!

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    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    As long as you're both legal and consenting adults, what does it matter what people think about it?

    Using the 'Ick Factor'... "Higher-Age / 2, then add 6"

    30 / 2 = 15, +6 = 21.

    Yep, it's just ok. Not icky.

  • 9 years ago

    My husband is 9 years younger than me. That said, I don't see why the relationship can't be whatever you want it to be.

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  • 9 years ago

    that seems gross. dating is on thing but that is to much. the male is barely an adult. This should stop

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    That he's into milfs and cougers?

  • 9 years ago

    i see nothing wrong with that , they are both adults so they can do as they please ..

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