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Anonymous asked in Politics & GovernmentLaw & Ethics · 9 years ago

how do I cancel crown court? I press harrasment charges against my husband but now after counceling I dont fee?

I wrote to crown court and spoke to police but they still going ahead with that

Update:

thank you for your comment, Jacob. Obviously, you dont understand meaning of forgiving. btwm nice to meet you, mr perfect ;-)

Update 2:

Jimbo, at that very moment I just wanted to get divorced..it was nothing about digging grave for my husband . I would appreciate if you guys would not judge me..only if you know answer my question. thank you

Update 3:

dear Jimbo, I know exactly what u ment by grave...and let me put it straight..I didnt seek revenge..again....if I was looking for a judgment I wudnt ask q :-/

Update 4:

"isit me"

i wrote to the court but tand gave 2nd statment to the police but I still need to attend. circumstances changed now, and I am attending regular counceling, my husband does as well with the same person and I realy believe with guidance we can resolve our problems, because we are both willing to do so.

how can I say that to judge in words he would understand? what happen if I wont have option to explain it to him?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    For decades many domestic abuse cases were discontinued due to the couples reconciling their differences. This was proving costly both in court time and in some cases the life of the victim when the abuse resumed, which it invariably does.

    In view of the number of retractions, the CPS in some cases proceed regardless. In such cases the victim is treated as a hostile witness and, in some circumstances, have received a fine or even custodial sentence for contempt of court.

    If you've asked for the case to be dropped and they've refused, you will probably be put before the judge to explain why. Be very careful as to what you say.

    It may seem harsh on the face of it, but the CPS are acting with your welfare in mind and trying to free you from the waster.

  • 9 years ago

    So why did you file for harassment charges against your husband if you are going to cancel it in the first place? It cannot be cancelled or temporarily halted because the time of the court and the resolution of the case is at hand. Even if you sleep at night the papers that you submitted in court is moving. The only option is that you finish the proceedings of the case and move on with your life thereafter. Well it is your fault you shouldn't have filed it in the first place when you can change your mind anytime.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    As I have many times said on this site,"when you go looking for revenge, dig two graves" You are now in the position of being in contempt of court if you do not testify and you could be charged with perjury if you lie to the court. All of these things, and many more, should have been thought of when you sought to destroy your husband. Your accusations must have been quite severe if this case is being tried in Crown Court.

    My dear lady, your obvious lack of basic comprehension of my answer is probably why you are in your current predicament. What my very old saying means is quite simple, the reference to graves is metaphorical, when you seek revenge, you also ruin yourself. That is evidenced by the fact that you are due to appear in court and are in the position to either lie on oath or not show up, contempt of court. Another old saying "talk is cheap, unless it is to a lawyer" Should you have talked this matter through with your lucky husband, I say lucky as he is shortly to be free of you, all of this could have been avoided.

  • 9 years ago

    Where I live you can't just cancel it. Once charges have been filed you have to go to court and go before a judge. Once you go to court you can ask the judge or prosecutors to drop the charges and they might or might not drop them. Depends on the circumstances and what exactly happened to make you file charges in the first place.

    Source(s): Worked for the court system where I live in the USA for years
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  • 9 years ago

    Once you get the courts involved it's out of your hands. You are just the middle man at that point the courts pick up charges even if you drop them.

  • Tavy
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    You cannot cancel it. The Crown Prosecution Service are going ahead, makes no difference if you want it or not.

    UK

  • 9 years ago

    You don't have the final say, when a law is broken you can't override the law.

    They obviously don't need you as a witness

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    just tell them via telephone that you are a woman and have no control over your idiotic decisions and mood swings. they'll understand.

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