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What to do about daughter's sexual misconduct?

my cousin's daughter is acting inappropriately with her father. This child is now legally an adult but was abused in her preteens by her grandmother's boyfriend. The mother and grandmother refused to allow the child to get professional help or report the rape. The only reason why the mother gave up custody is because the child is an adult and the child support order was dropped because she refuses to go to school anymore since turning 19.

My cousin says, his daughter tries to touch him inappropriately, and even sent him naked picture of herself. He's paranoid and afraid to be alone with his own daughter and because she's no longer legally not a minor he does not know what to do. ]

Reprimanding her and telling her that her behavior is wrong does not seem to help - he has to lock his bedroom to prevent her from slipping into bed with him.

He has no desire towards this child and has other children and wants to banish this behavior before it gets out of hand.

If you are a professional, please tell me what to do to help this child and my brother. IF some one sends a rude or inappropriate answer IT WILL BE REPORTED. Otherwise, thank you for any mental, legal or parental advise.

Update:

I HAD TO CHOOSE 1 BEST, BUT THANKS FOR ALL THE GREAT SINCERE RESPONSES POSTED. A few answers demonstrated that some people cannot read; and I expected the idiotic answers and reported them.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Sorry, I'm not a professional, but maybe it would be better if she was out of the house? I'm sure they could send her to Job Corp if they have it in the area. Definetly needs some counseling though. I REALLY hope things work out for the best...

  • 9 years ago

    i think you should report the rape and get the girl some mental help, i'm pretty sure her rape has messed her up quite a bit and for her sake i think she should get professional help so she can figure out what's right and wrong.

    it might be expensive but you can probably get consolation money from the grandma and her boyfriend when he goes to jail. and if it's too late to report the rape then you can still file a lawsuit which you can tell the court that you need the money for the help she needs.

    good luck and i hope for the best for her! :)

  • isaac
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Though the sexual abuse might be the answer, but she may also be GSA, a recognized sexual orientation, and one that plans to fight for the same rights to marry a sibling, or a parent, after the Gays get the full rights to marry.

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Your daughter is facing hoeitis, it is an STD that she has gotten. Ones a women contracts hoeitis, she becomes very addicted to sexual intercourse and will get on top of anything that has a penis. There is no known cure, but research believes that putting crack inside of a basketball and giving to the victim can allure the symptoms momentarily.

  • 9 years ago

    children try and repeat what was done to them. sit and talk to her or if she doesnt talk to you hire a therapist. as a rape victim i know its hard but every one copes differently. this is one of her ways of coping and when its you and her explain what happens to people that act like shes acting..(sent to mental hospital) just a little intimidation wont hurt

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I think this should be put in the STD section just in case there is a problem.

    Just tell us flat out that you have an STD.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    He should roll the dice and eat dat pu$$$y like shrimp fried rice

  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    ok. I am a professional. What you should do is join them in bed. Then repeat the first step over again.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Send her to Uganda

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