Anybody else do ALL the housework and resent it?

I live with my BF and a few weeks ago we inherited a dog from my pregnant daughter. The next week my other daughter and dog (and fleas) also moved in due to domestic violence charges against her BF. I am a stay at home GF but am so because of an injury to my Right shoulder and 2 surgeries. The most recent was in Feb and I am to expect a 4-6 month recovery. I am in physical therapy 3 x week with a 5 pound weight lift. Because of the cause of the injury I am still receiving my full pay check.

What gets me is my BF has always said "I pick up after myself". Yes, he hangs his clothes, puts them in the laundry and puts his dinner dishes in the sink and will sometimes wash the other dishes. My daughter has dusted and vacuumed 1 time. They both say "I pick up after myself". The problem is they don't seem to understand that they leave dust, use the bathrooms, walk on the floors, leave bread crumbs on the counter when they make toast and as any housewife knows the list goes on and on. (not to mention the dogs are now my problem since they both work all day and someone has to walk them. Due to my surgery it requires 2 trips out since I can only walk one at a time)

I'm starting to get really angry about this. The coffee tables, kitchen counters and floors have to be done daily (but they clean up after themselves). I have a friend who comes over about once a week to clean the rest of the stuff (bathrooms, mop floors Change my sheets and such). I pay her to do this but feel that I should not have to pay anyone to help me now since I have an adult daughter (and her dog) living with me at present.

I'm getting really angry about this. My BF and I have talked to my daughter who agrees she needs to accept some responsibility but then she just stormed out when I asked for some help So, do I just suck it up and keep hiring my friend, leave the counters, coffee tables and floors undone except when friend comes while I wait for my daughters job transfer? (shes going out of the country at the end of th month to get away from the abuser) Asking daughter for help causes to much drama and I don't want her to leave my house due to her domestic abuse problems. Also do I just suck it up and continue to do the dusting, counters, vacuuming like I always have since it drives me crazy to sit in a messy house all day? What to do? Thanks anyone for your help!

She was just home for about 1 hour while I was cleaning and got really mad at me because "Why are you being such a *****, I work and you're home all day" and stormed out of the house.

Having her out of the house is not possible right now due to the domestic abuse problem (she has a restraining order which he continues to violate) and I truly believe her life is at risk with him. and like I said she is leaving the country at the end of the month.