Why is it so hard for me to be in a relationship?

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I've never had a bf & I've never been kissed, I'm not ugly. I'm 18 now, I've been asked to be guys girlfriend, but I was always afraid that my parents would say no because they were too strict. & now my momm tells me your getting older your 18 and why don't you have a bf like your cousin ann. I feel like I'm desperate now, I haven't met anyone I like in a couple of years. I just wanna find someone and experience what it feels like to be in a relationship... its really weird because I give great relationship advice, but I've never been in one. People always tell me I'm pretty, but I'm starting to believe that something is wrong with me... & I've always pushed guys away cus I'm scared. As a child I was molested by a boy that had down syndrome, he passed away after, so I want to know is that the reason why I 'm afraid?

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Don't try to force it to happen. It'll happen. Trust me.. And don't be afraid to give a guy a chance if you don't really know him. Just because you don't like him now doesn't mean you won't ever...and whatever you do don't let anyone try to make you do something your not comfortable with. The trick is to just get out there. Get a job if you don't have one, and get a car. You'll be meeting new people in no time.

Anonymous · Answer

Dont find love or bf let the love find you if someone like you so much and you feel the same way too let it flow. you are not afraid maybe the right person for you is not yet come.

Veeranna · Answer

Hello Dear
it's common for all who-ever not lived in a relationship apart from family life, 
any ways now on-wards you just start observe the boys lightly just mark and shortlist them who-ever you feel good to be your soul mate or BF.

Good Luck

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Why is it so hard for me to be in a relationship?

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