would u let your spouse go see their ex who just got out of prison?

Doesn't matter if they were in prison or not, I would not like them seeing their ex.

If he wanted to, sure. I've never asked him to amputate huge sections of his life just because he asked and desires me to be his mate. This whole "let" issue with spouses? Unfortunate and odd. People do not need to be monitored and controlled. I know I'd never tolerate it. All spouses need to understand is the likely ramifications of their choices but this isn't a choice I'd be concerned about at all. I'd likely encourage it.

Let? I'm not his boss, mommy, nor warden. He can do what he wants. However, that being said, I would not like the fact he wanted to see his ex-con Ex. Why? She's not in our lives. She has no connection with us other than you dated her years ago. Time to move on in my opinion.