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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 9 years ago

Why do people seem to dislike me?

I'm a young girl who is in High School. I'm nice, get good grades, and quiet. However, people seem to dislike me. Some even talk behind my back. I think this has to do with me being quiet. Throughout my school years, I've been bullied, mainly for being the class nerd. I always did good in school and was a quiet person. I'd never brag about something like my grades because I'm not that kind of person. So, I think this is why people dislike me. But I think it's such a silly thing to do. I never harmed anyone in any way and I avoid drama as much as possible. I just want to make more friends but people never give me a chance. Do you guys have any advice? Thank you very much and have a nice day.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    These people are disliking you because you are smart and they are jealous of it. When they bully you , turn it around and compliment them on something , this will make them notice how you are, and how you don't need to change to be friends with them; because there is NO absolute reason for them to be hating you.

    Source(s): Me
  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    You sound like a goody two shoes which most people dislike maybe you should get out of shell and starting to talk people and stop being so perfect cause their were kids like that in my highschool i hated how they were quit and how they acted so innocent its ok to be smart but you should also learn to not act so perfect and i don't mean you do in a stuck up way but you do in a annoying way also stick up for your self if they making fun of you tell them off

  • its because society today is so judge mental. people never like each other because we are all different. its always going to happen because, in my opinion, everyone wants to be the same but at the same time they want to shun differences and make fun of the people that may be "impure" or otherwise unfit for there tastes. my advice is to just ignore them and keep going with smarts you have. who cares what the other kids think of you, your perfect in your own way.

  • 9 years ago

    well.. try just simply sitting down with some "nice" people at lunch and talk to them. they shouldnt tell you to move. have a birthday party or a party and invite some nice but not bad people..

    i have a pretty bad problem. please watch it

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bom4rLLf9cE

    Source(s): :)
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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    People dont dislike you, its simply the fact that most r jealous. Build up your confidence cuz when you shine nobody can extinguish that flame :) Good luck to you.

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