How do I tell my boy friend and parents I'm bi?

totally different situations with the two sets of people.

parents? guage their response. observe their behaviour and their acceptance of different types of sexuality. you should be you regardless, but WHEN they should know is what should be decided of the information you get from what i told you to do.

your boyfriend... find a gal... that you dig... a friend... and go 'hang out' with him with her also. see where it goes. he wont mind promise. neither will you if you are really bisexual. if you just "flat out" tell him as others have proposed he wont get the full extent of the matter. when it happens in front of him, involving him, he will understand first hand that its not a bad thing. see, you win. you arent just telling him, you are showing him, and it makes him more likely to say "im cool with it baby" which is what you want, right?

What's with the intense need to come out... Like you're bi? Omg big deal... Not everyone needs to know every single thing about you. I'll never understand why people pressure themselves to "comeout."

Why do you need to tell them? Just curious. If you're in High School then you have about 3-2 years to go and then you're free in college? Why must they know, and how exactly will their knowing of your bisexuality affect you?

All I'm saying is this: just think. Why are you doing this? Why are you so intent on telling these people this? Assuming you know these people's personalities, what could the ramifications of this be? More good than bad? More bad than good? Thats for you to decide, don't ask someone here (including myself) to make the ultimate decision for you.

Yup. First of all get your mama/papa to say that they'll always love you, regardless who you really are.

Make them swear to you and tell. If they don't, don't try to do it and make them say it in any way. Then tell. You can also try another way: to ask their opinion about gays/lesbians/bisexual. And if they think it's ok, tell them. What about bf? Simply tell him the truth

Also, why you should tell about it? It's none of your parents' business. I really think you shouldn't tell about it unless they know you engaged with somebody of your sex, so they don't think you're lesbian (lots of parents actually are afraid that their children can be gay).

But if you really want to share it, don't be scared, as there's nothing shameful about it.

Have a good luck.

Are you sure you're Bi or are you experimenting?

Its perfectly normal for most people to experiment, they feel as though they like both sexes but they later grow out of it. Its just human nature to experiment and try out our possible sexual interests.

you just have to flat out tell them. And don't worry you will be fine.